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    Girl I'm dating is going overseas for a month

    I met this girl through a mutual friend. I could tell she liked me straight away.
    Anyways, fast forward a week later, I asked her out. We went out, and ended up doing it at her place. Few days later, she texts me, we arrange another date. Second date comes, we have fun and end up doing it again at her place.
    The problem is she's going to visit her family overseas for a month, and I won't be able to see her. She said she'll call me when she's back.

    I'm worried she'll just forget about me, or lose the attraction she has for me right now. I like this girl, but I don't know what to do? Should I let it be until she comes back, or should I text her few times while she's away (p.s: both of us hate texting)
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    Firstly chill tf out and stop being so insecure. You're overthinking things.

    A month is nothing. Just make sure you spend some time together before she goes, make the effort and do something fun.

    Find out when she flys out and text her before she gets on her plane. Tell her you really enjoy being with her and wish her a safe flight.

    2 weeks in send a text saying hopes she's having fun and you can't wait til she's back.

    When she finally comes back meet up and go to town on her in the bedroom, show her how much you miss her.

    Easy peasy
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    Yeah, I feel like I'm over analysing this. We can meet this week because she told me she's worried about catching covid prior to her flight. That's why she told me, i'll call you once i'm back.
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    I'm not sure if I can speak for other men on this but the best thing I did was stop worrying about what women will do when you're not around. If they are going to cheat oh well, they will probably leave you anyways. If you see clear and present evidence than act accordingly and leave her

    My ex would occasionally get rides home from work with a coworker, I did not worry about it because the weather was very bad like snowing, rain and she would have to walk miles if the bus wasn't running. She was an hour away from me and it wasn't really practical for me to do much.. but I didn't lose my **** because I knew at that at the end of the day she was in my bed and in love with me. Women don't cheat on you if they are actually in love with you. I even told her at times if she really wanted kids and marriage she should consider leaving me at some point, but I was doing things my way.

    Now eventually I got fat and didn't take her out as much and didn't agree to marry her and she left me. Is it possible she's ****ing that guy now? probably but I didn't give a chit then, so now she can **** another guy and that's ok. If I gave enough of a chit I would of done the things to keep her attracted to me in the first place. If you don't have the capacity to be jealous it will make you more attractive
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    did you slap her ass?

    eat her butthole?

    or make her squirt?

    if you lay the pipe well she won't forget you

    but why you catching the feels so quickly?

    i would give her the space when she is away to think about you - that is when her attraction for you grows

    in case you missed it. don't text her, she said she would contact you - if she likes you - she will
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    Thanks for sharing your story man, I got your point. I definitely shouldn't act jealous. Solid advice!
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    Well, I did slap her cheeks and make her nut few times...

    Thanks a lot for the reply man, I am kinda catching the feels quickly. But, I won't text her, I'll wait!
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    I was dating a girl that is going to asia for a month soon too ..she is pulling back now but whatever

    Just follow up with here and there & ask about the trip.

    Only thing that could happen is that she hooks up with someone over seas but you have no control over that nor should you care as you should be dating / talking to other girls too
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    Thanks for the reply man, you're right I shouldn't worry about her sleeping around.
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    Originally Posted by NawT View Post
    Thanks for the reply man, you're right I shouldn't worry about her sleeping around.
    Nah you shouldnt

    You literally have 0 control over that

    Part of the game
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    Originally Posted by Azrairc View Post
    I'm not sure if I can speak for other men on this but the best thing I did was stop worrying about what women will do when you're not around. If they are going to cheat oh well, they will probably leave you anyways. If you see clear and present evidence than act accordingly and leave her

    My ex would occasionally get rides home from work with a coworker, I did not worry about it because the weather was very bad like snowing, rain and she would have to walk miles if the bus wasn't running. She was an hour away from me and it wasn't really practical for me to do much.. but I didn't lose my **** because I knew at that at the end of the day she was in my bed and in love with me. Women don't cheat on you if they are actually in love with you. I even told her at times if she really wanted kids and marriage she should consider leaving me at some point, but I was doing things my way.

    Now eventually I got fat and didn't take her out as much and didn't agree to marry her and she left me. Is it possible she's ****ing that guy now? probably but I didn't give a chit then, so now she can **** another guy and that's ok. If I gave enough of a chit I would of done the things to keep her attracted to me in the first place. If you don't have the capacity to be jealous it will make you more attractive
    Exactly. You got to stop worrying about what a girl does when you aint there
    You can't c block
    I remember i used to freak in fact once i called a girl i was dating at 2 am because my whatsapp message wasnt delivering so i thought she must be out hooking up with no wifi , prob was but who cares.

    Stay out of the bs with these girls these days , and don't concern yourself with her other options...esp if its not an official relationship.

    Stay cool & calm
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    Originally Posted by blueberryboy View Post

    Part of the game





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    You should read this book OP:


    A lot of times you have to say to women is:
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    I'm going to assume that I'm single with the way that I've been treated
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    There are only 3 ways women can go on trips:


    1. completely single for guilt free cock
    2. With their boyfriends as a couples trip
    3. with a boyfriend back home they cheat on based on some mental gymnastics they justify it in their head with.



    Heres the problem OP.
    1. for number 1, you prevented her from being completely single
    2. she dont know you well enough to invite you to the family trip
    3. she dont know you well enough to hate you yet like a long term husband to cheat on you guilt free



    so she just going to dump you before the trip to get some cawk. And look for a new boyfriend after she get back.


    Been there before OP. Some sloot I dated for a month and the "trip to see her friend" was some euro dude that she banged the fuk out of. so she ghosted me right before her trip.



    edit: just saw its only 2 dates with her? ok you might be good, you are under rule 4, you havent dated enough yet to establish what you two "are" and havent talked about exclusiveness. So she can fuk whomever she wants on her vacation and she can be yours again when she gets back and you guys can get married and all that.
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    lol almost this exact scenario happened to me recently

    haven't talked in a month lol
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    Seems like she’s already pulling back because she doesn’t want to see you before she goes because of Covid… if she cannot see anyone fore she goes? Also, you are too invested already. You’ll text and you do care if she bangs someone else and you’ll ask her when she gets back and that will put her off.
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    Originally Posted by elterrible987 View Post
    There are only 3 ways women can go on trips:


    1. completely single for guilt free cock
    2. With their boyfriends as a couples trip
    3. with a boyfriend back home they cheat on based on some mental gymnastics they justify it in their head with.



    Heres the problem OP.
    1. for number 1, you prevented her from being completely single
    2. she dont know you well enough to invite you to the family trip
    3. she dont know you well enough to hate you yet like a long term husband to cheat on you guilt free



    so she just going to dump you before the trip to get some cawk. And look for a new boyfriend after she get back.


    Been there before OP. Some sloot I dated for a month and the "trip to see her friend" was some euro dude that she banged the fuk out of. so she ghosted me right before her trip.



    edit: just saw its only 2 dates with her? ok you might be good, you are under rule 4, you havent dated enough yet to establish what you two "are" and havent talked about exclusiveness. So she can fuk whomever she wants on her vacation and she can be yours again when she gets back and you guys can get married and all that.
    Lol!
    Yeah we're not exclusive, we haven't mentioned anything related to relationships. She said she's "just" going to spend time with her family (to be fair she hasn't seen them in a year). But probably will catch some tip too. But you missed my whole point, I'm just worried if I don't contact her at all for 6 months, she'll just forget about me.

    I kinda cringed after writing that, not gonna lie.
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    Originally Posted by dolviolex View Post
    Seems like she’s already pulling back because she doesn’t want to see you before she goes because of Covid… if she cannot see anyone fore she goes? Also, you are too invested already. You’ll text and you do care if she bangs someone else and you’ll ask her when she gets back and that will put her off.
    I'm too invested? I hate to admit, but yes.
    I will text her? As much as I do want to text her, I won't
    I care if she bangs someone else? Yes I do. I'll ask her? No I won't.

    So I'm assuming you think I shouldn't text her until she comes back and call me?
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    Have you been texting or snapping since you've been hanging out?

    You could just straight up ask her if she wants to keep in touch while she's away or reconnect once she's back.
    I don't think it comes off needy when you don't push it and are essentially saying it's fine if she would prefer to have her space for the time being.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    Have you been texting or snapping since you've been hanging out?

    You could just straight up ask her if she wants to keep in touch while she's away or reconnect once she's back.
    I don't think it comes off needy when you don't push it and are essentially saying it's fine if she would prefer to have her space for the time being.
    No, we essentially texted to make plans. After the first date, told her to call me or text me. She then texted me 2 days later and I asked her out for the second date. Then I did the same after the second date, but this time she said she'll call when she comes back. I feel it'll come off needy if I text now..
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    No, we essentially texted to make plans. After the first date, told her to call me or text me. She then texted me 2 days later and I asked her out for the second date. Then I did the same after the second date, but this time she said she'll call when she comes back. I feel it'll come off needy if I text now..
    This makes it sound like she's not very interested. If I were interested in someone I'd make sure to say I'd keep in touch while away. I wouldn't want to go a month and not speak to them at all.
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    Originally Posted by Legz422 View Post
    This makes it sound like she's not very interested. If I were interested in someone I'd make sure to say I'd keep in touch while away. I wouldn't want to go a month and not speak to them at all.
    Well, not much I can do about that...
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    Originally Posted by NawT View Post
    Well, not much I can do about that...
    Unfortunately not. Just wait and see if she contacts you.
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    Originally Posted by Legz422 View Post
    This makes it sound like she's not very interested. If I were interested in someone I'd make sure to say I'd keep in touch while away. I wouldn't want to go a month and not speak to them at all.
    This ^, if it was a week, sure ok but a month would be too long to go for someone you're interested in.
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    I met this girl through a mutual friend. I could tell she liked me straight away.
    red flag is right here
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    You mighht have answered this but where overseas is she going?
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    Originally Posted by Pats2022SBwin View Post
    You mighht have answered this but where overseas is she going?
    She's from the U.S, but we study in Germany. She went back home to her state.
    she's supposed to be back in 2 days, but I haven't heard from her ever since..
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    Originally Posted by NawT View Post
    She's from the U.S, but we study in Germany. She went back home to her state.
    she's supposed to be back in 2 days, but I haven't heard from her ever since..
    out of sight out of mind. she's enjoying some european dik rn, when she comes back maybe she'll hit u up
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    Originally Posted by NawT View Post
    She's from the U.S, but we study in Germany. She went back home to her state.
    she's supposed to be back in 2 days, but I haven't heard from her ever since..

    Shes getting slammed by all kinds of foreign dick but you guys werent officially anything so its within rule 4 and you can take her back, just make sure she showered real good get all Tyrone's goo out of her and its your turn again.
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