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    What’s the reason some girls approach me and then ghost me ??

    Why fuk with me instead of other guys ?? Obviously if a girl is ghosting you means she’s not interested but why ****ing approach then and text fast than I do ? (I take hours to reply) ?
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    I thought we determine years ago that it's because you are autistic.

    If women approach you then ghost you once you open your mouth, you are creeping them out. srs.
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    Originally Posted by pondus_levo View Post
    I thought we determine years ago that it's because you are autistic.
    How can I be less autistic ?
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    Originally Posted by alphatan View Post
    How can I be less autistic ?
    I have no idea what you are saying to them, so I cannot give specific advice. But, generally, a woman needs to feel safe in your presence.
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    Originally Posted by pondus_levo View Post
    I have no idea what you are saying to them, so I cannot give specific advice. But, generally, a woman needs to feel safe in your presence.
    Well she probably felt safe that’s why she was walking with me on empty streets around 1 am , but we were in a nice area
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    HAs no problems approaching + texting a ton... guessing she wants attention more than anything else.

    Prob wasn't ever going to be an LTR OP.
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    I got a touch of assburgers.

    Not autism I looked that up last night and not really at all but I'm def different

    Gimme an example of a typical conversation. How long before they stop responding? Are you sending pics? Asking for pics

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    I’m curious about this phenomenon too actually, in the online world anyway - I routinely hear from women from dating apps who seem very excited to connect, often suggest something fairly forward, such as “you seem really great, would you want to meet for a drink this weekend?”, and then delete the match the very next day. I get this once or twice a week. I’m not sure if it’s how I’m responding or if they are just trolling me in the first place ?

    Usually I’ll say something along the lines of, “Well sure that sounds great, I’d love to meet you! Would Saturday at 8pm work?”. Should I be harder to get or something? I don’t get why they would take the time to send me a message like that and then immediately bounce. And yet it happens all the time.
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    They’ll ghost and it might have nothing to do with you homie, don’t overthink it. A lot of em just like to play silly games.
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    Originally Posted by NMS3 View Post
    They’ll ghost and it might have nothing to do with you homie, don’t overthink it. A lot of em just like to play silly games.
    I suppose that must be it. This happens so often though, much more often than actually setting up real dates and meeting anyone, so it’s frustrating. I can’t imagine thinking to myself “Oh maybe I’ll express very high interest in a stranger just to generate a response that makes me feel wanted and desired, and then ditch.” But since I get 10 of those for every 1 actual real interaction, that must be what people are going for.

    I bet it’s due to Covid too - it’s like everyone is agoraphobic and afraid to even go outside, but they still want the attention they’d be getting in the normal world... Best explanation I can think of anyway!
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    Oh just had another one this morning. Two days ago this girl messaged me on Bumble, opening with "Hey, your profile stands out on here; you are so handsome. My name is XXXX. I'd love to get to know you better"

    We had a number of messages back and forth over the last two days since then. Late last night she sent me a message telling me how I'm so hot and my career is so interesting, she would love to meet me, etc. etc.

    This morning she deleted the match.
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    They realized ur too small
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    You're a simp and they can smell it on you. They pump and dump you for validation then move on to the real chads
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    Originally Posted by LtGoose View Post
    You're a simp and they can smell it on you. They pump and dump you for validation then move on to the real chads
    It's possible they're perceiving the situation this way. I would think they would at least wait for a response to get that "validation" before deleting the match however.

    Another one yesterday morning wrote one message saying, "Morning. I am not much of a drinker but we can arrange for one drink I can be reached at xxx. I have a few fluid plans with my daughter this weekend, but planning to go into my office next week."

    I texted her later that day -- she never responded, and she deleted the match.

    Girl last night sent that message late last night streaming with an endless array of compliments, just glowing... I did not even respond before she deleted the match this morning. When was there time for me to come across as a "simp"?
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    Could be a million different reasons. Probably because you are autustic. Keep putting yourself in social situations which are uncomfortable to you, and you will adapt, learn, overcome and achieve success.
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    Originally Posted by RonaldMcflurry View Post
    Could be a million different reasons. Probably because you are autustic. Keep putting yourself in social situations which are uncomfortable to you, and you will adapt, learn, overcome and achieve success.
    I have never experienced these behaviors before Covid hit -- I truly think it's a unique feature of the current predicament the world is in. But I will take your advice anyway -- it can never hurt to throw oneself into as many social situations as possible and push past our comfort zones to keep improving.

    Here are a couple more recent examples of interactions I took screen shots of -- both deleted the match the next day and were never heard from ever again. Maybe I was too forward with the one I responded to. The other one, I sent my number and said love to hear from you get in touch soon, or something to that effect. I guess she had given up on the whole online thing anyway...



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