Reply
Page 1 of 3 1 2 3 LastLast
Results 1 to 30 of 83
  1. #1
    Registered User devopsengineer's Avatar
    Join Date: Jul 2017
    Location: Serbia
    Age: 33
    Posts: 1,779
    Rep Power: 322
    devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250)
    devopsengineer is offline

    Why I still can't get laid?

    So I have been working on myself.

    I built a big house, I have my own IT consulting company. I make good money. And it will be even better. In free time I study and finish certifications. I go to gym regularly.

    But I am still kisless virgin. And women are very standofish when I try to talk with them. Online they seldom even respond, if they respond, chat goes nowhere. I get very few matches. Maybe one a month.

    Seems like some bug in the matrix.
    “People said I should accept the world. Bull****! I don't accept the world.”

    ― Richard M. Stallman
    Reply With Quote

  2. #2
    therapist (srs) xvicknumber7x's Avatar
    Join Date: Jan 2008
    Location: United States
    Posts: 17,035
    Rep Power: 30442
    xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) xvicknumber7x has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000)
    xvicknumber7x is offline
    there is absolutely nothing about your personality in your post
    Reply With Quote

  3. #3
    Registered User DigDeeper1's Avatar
    Join Date: Jun 2020
    Age: 51
    Posts: 876
    Rep Power: 4797
    DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500) DigDeeper1 is a glorious beacon of knowledge. (+2500)
    DigDeeper1 is online now
    0 personality and cash doesn't get you girls
    Reply With Quote

  4. #4
    Registered User Kev1972's Avatar
    Join Date: Jun 2013
    Location: Big Arm, Montana, United States
    Posts: 28,855
    Rep Power: 146491
    Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) Kev1972 has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000)
    Kev1972 is online now
    How many cars did you sell before you got your IT degree?

    Also, European women don't generally go for pakis. Try asian or indian.
    Motorcycle crew
    Army veteran crew
    One Meal a day crew
    Reply With Quote

  5. #5
    Registered User Hnbn1's Avatar
    Join Date: Sep 2018
    Posts: 1,292
    Rep Power: 10146
    Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) Hnbn1 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000)
    Hnbn1 is offline
    Congrats on your material successes.
    You need to practice creative visualization
    Reply With Quote

  6. #6
    Registered User Ninshark's Avatar
    Join Date: Oct 2015
    Age: 30
    Posts: 1,026
    Rep Power: 2192
    Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000) Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000) Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000) Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000) Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000) Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000) Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000) Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000) Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000) Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000) Ninshark is just really nice. (+1000)
    Ninshark is offline
    Originally Posted by devopsengineer View Post
    So I have been working on myself.

    I built a big house, I have my own IT consulting company. I make good money. And it will be even better. In free time I study and finish certifications. I go to gym regularly.

    But I am still kisless virgin. And women are very standofish when I try to talk with them. Online they seldom even respond, if they respond, chat goes nowhere. I get very few matches. Maybe one a month.

    Seems like some bug in the matrix.
    hey been wondering how you've been doing. I actually was strangely thinking about you when I was on google translate and saw Serbian, and was like, 'hey wasn't there that Serbian guy who was struggling being single?" Come to see you've posted this today. All I can say is good luck man. Maybe relationships aren't all what is cut out to be. I've been in and out of 2 relationships now since I last saw your posts a few years ago. I had to go through 2 sad sad breakups man. In fact, I'm still dealing with my current breakup and I'm devastated. well, good luck to you, maybe you'll be lucky enough soon and will be able to find someone nice and get married and never look back!
    Goals:

    -lose 10-15 more lbs...

    02/15/2017: 228
    228-224-218-216-214-210-210-210-210-209
    195-192-189-188-186

    got into gradschool!!
    back to single life again
    Reply With Quote

  7. #7
    Registered User DoYouEvenNEM's Avatar
    Join Date: Apr 2015
    Age: 38
    Posts: 3,800
    Rep Power: 6688
    DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000) DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000) DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000) DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000) DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000) DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000) DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000) DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000) DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000) DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000) DoYouEvenNEM is a name known to all. (+5000)
    DoYouEvenNEM is offline
    Women have their own money. Even Ukraine, where the average wage is $300 a month, every woman somehow still has money to eat out, take international vacations, etc etc. 85% own their own home due to the privatization after USSR.

    The only place where flaunting money works is Philippines because many in that country do things like sleep 9 to a 1 room tin shack.
    Reply With Quote

  8. #8
    Registered User iloveus's Avatar
    Join Date: Sep 2014
    Age: 28
    Posts: 16,918
    Rep Power: 51829
    iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) iloveus has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000)
    iloveus is offline
    There’s a lot of advice on attracting women out there. And what most of it misses is that attraction, seduction, intimacy, sex, whatever you want to call it — is an emotional process, not a physical or social one. You can say the “wrong” things and still attract a woman. You can say all of the “right” things and repel her. What matters is the intention, the motivation, the authenticity. To improve your dating life, you must improve your emotional life — how you feel about yourself and others, how you express yourself to others, etc.

    It’s not about learning lines or routines or dressing up a certain way. It’s about unmasking the unique and attractive man within yourself and joyfully expressing it to the women of the world.

    That may sound vague, but it has very real repercussions on your interactions with women.

    People choose who they’re going to be with based on how they feel around that person. For us men, it’s often quite simple. A beautiful woman makes us feel aroused, so we pursue sex with her. If we feel cared for, respected and admired by her, we pursue a relationship with her.

    But women experience sexuality differently than we do, so it can be a bit more complicated and hard for us to decipher what makes them feel attracted to us. But the principle remains the same. Women go with men who make them feel a certain way. There are a number of ways to elicit emotion in a woman, and the way in which you go about eliciting that emotion will determine the quality and quantity (or lack thereof) of the relationships you have with women.

    What’s I’m saying is this: you’ll find a lot of varying advice out there on how to attract women — some will say to tease them, some will say to be selfish and rude around them, some will say to buy them gifts, others will say to be cold and calculating — whichever of these avenues you choose to pursue with women, that is the corresponding relationship you’ll create.

    The way which you pursue women will determine which ones you end up with.
    If you choose to be cold, calculating and manipulative with women, you will naturally screen for women who will create a cold, calculating and manipulative relationship with you. If you pursue women with a neediness and an idealization of them, then you will attract equally naive and insecure women who will create a relationship of neediness and false idolization. If you pursue women in a rude and harsh manner, you will attract women who respond to harsh emotions and elicit harsh emotions themselves.

    I encourage men to pursue women with honesty and authenticity because this screens for women who are honest, authentic and conscientious themselves, making for far better relationships.

    The other reason I encourage men to pursue women with authenticity is that communicating your sexuality with women openly forces you to become a confident and integrated man. In the short-term, this can be more painful and difficult. But in the long run, this reduces emotional neediness and molds you into a bold and confident man who draws women to him like a magnet.


    Sexual attraction from women is determined by status, status is determined by behavior, and what determines whether a man has attractive behavior or not is his perception of himself relative to those around him, particularly women. I refer to this concept as neediness and believe the degree of a man’s neediness around women will determine how attractive or unattractive his behavior around them will be.

    For instance, a needy man may come up with really clever jokes and have a great job, but he will use them to impress her and get validation from her — needy behaviors — and will therefore be perceived to be unattractive. Whereas a non-needy man may talk about silly conversation topics, openly admit that he’s between jobs, but get very excited and passionate about his rock climbing hobby. Believe it or not, this man will be seen as attractive because his behaviors will be genuine, authentic, and non-needy. The reason is he’s basing his behavior around her on his perception of himself and not her perception of him.

    The needy man, despite having a nice job and clever things to say, is a follower. He’s a pawn of those around him. He will only go so far. The non-needy man, even though he may be a bit aimless and in a downturn in his life, he will end up living an enriching and unique life that suits him and makes him happier.

    If a man values the perceptions of others more than his perception of himself, then he will naturally behave in an unattractive way around them. If he trusts his perception of himself more than the perceptions of those around him, then he will be perceived as a non-needy man, and therefore behave attractively. All of the outward appearances of status and resources — the fitness, the nice clothes, the cool lifestyle — these things are a result of a man who is inwardly driven, a man who invests in himself and takes care of himself.

    When all is said and done, all attractive traits in a man can be traced back to his lack of neediness.
    Financial Freedom/Passive Income Crew
    Entrepreneur Crew
    MMA Crew
    Cinematographer Crew
    Photographer Crew
    Ski/Snowboard Crew
    Guns Crew
    Reply With Quote

  9. #9
    Registered User RyanJLuu's Avatar
    Join Date: Feb 2021
    Age: 51
    Posts: 87
    Rep Power: 83
    RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50) RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50) RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50) RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50) RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50) RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50) RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50) RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50) RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50) RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50) RyanJLuu will become famous soon enough. (+50)
    RyanJLuu is offline
    It's all about confidence. You can't act like you need them. Just enjoy their time and be comfortable with yourself. What works for me is I make jokes all the time and they enjoy my company. I've even got girls hit on me because they feel my positive energy. Not all women will enjoy your style but just keep pushing on and you'll provide something they will prefer.
    "Become Better You - Physically and Mentally"
    Life's Too Short To Be Negative!
    www.kaizenedgeclothing.com
    Reply With Quote

  10. #10
    Registered User devopsengineer's Avatar
    Join Date: Jul 2017
    Location: Serbia
    Age: 33
    Posts: 1,779
    Rep Power: 322
    devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250)
    devopsengineer is offline
    Originally Posted by Kev1972 View Post
    How many cars did you sell before you got your IT degree?

    Also, European women don't generally go for pakis. Try asian or indian.
    I never had a car. And I don't have formal IT degree either. And I don't know why you mention pakmans.
    “People said I should accept the world. Bull****! I don't accept the world.”

    ― Richard M. Stallman
    Reply With Quote

  11. #11
    Registered User devopsengineer's Avatar
    Join Date: Jul 2017
    Location: Serbia
    Age: 33
    Posts: 1,779
    Rep Power: 322
    devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250)
    devopsengineer is offline
    Originally Posted by xvicknumber7x View Post
    there is absolutely nothing about your personality in your post
    Not sure if I have that. How can i mesure that?
    “People said I should accept the world. Bull****! I don't accept the world.”

    ― Richard M. Stallman
    Reply With Quote

  12. #12
    Registered User devopsengineer's Avatar
    Join Date: Jul 2017
    Location: Serbia
    Age: 33
    Posts: 1,779
    Rep Power: 322
    devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250)
    devopsengineer is offline
    Originally Posted by iloveus View Post
    ...
    When all is said and done, all attractive traits in a man can be traced back to his lack of neediness.
    Lot of text but no explanation of how I should I act to look non-needy.

    I tried avoiding chicks. But that does not work either.
    “People said I should accept the world. Bull****! I don't accept the world.”

    ― Richard M. Stallman
    Reply With Quote

  13. #13
    gif me so i can gif you Kiop's Avatar
    Join Date: Nov 2015
    Posts: 22,284
    Rep Power: 98950
    Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000) Kiop has a brilliant future. Third best rank! (+40000)
    Kiop is offline
    maybe own a BMW?
    I lost My old Signature, please help me find the rest of the Verses.
    I used to postpone fisting session, now fisting is part of my daily routine.
    All gifs made in Misc thread:
    https://igoodies.000webhostapp.com/?viagra=showthread.php?t=178547811
    Reply With Quote

  14. #14
    Registered User skinnyfat88's Avatar
    Join Date: Apr 2014
    Location: Canada
    Age: 33
    Posts: 3,896
    Rep Power: 15526
    skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000)
    skinnyfat88 is offline
    OP have you looked into hiring a dating coach or dating consultant?
    I don't know the first thing about them but it seems like it'd be worth a shot for you.
    Reply With Quote

  15. #15
    Let's slot floppies keyboardworkout's Avatar
    Join Date: Jul 2009
    Posts: 19,275
    Rep Power: 193442
    keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000) keyboardworkout has a reputation beyond repute. Second best rank possible! (+100000)
    keyboardworkout is offline
    As long as you aren't Indian, there should be a chance you can get laid.
    ▪█─────█▪ Equipment Crew #53 ▪█─────█▪
    ^^^^^^ 6' 6" and Over Crew ^^^^^^
    ****General George S. Patton was Right Crew****
    Reply With Quote

  16. #16
    Registered User devopsengineer's Avatar
    Join Date: Jul 2017
    Location: Serbia
    Age: 33
    Posts: 1,779
    Rep Power: 322
    devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250)
    devopsengineer is offline
    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    OP have you looked into hiring a dating coach or dating consultant?
    I don't know the first thing about them but it seems like it'd be worth a shot for you.
    Where to find those?
    “People said I should accept the world. Bull****! I don't accept the world.”

    ― Richard M. Stallman
    Reply With Quote

  17. #17
    Registered User DustinTheHuss's Avatar
    Join Date: May 2019
    Posts: 4,163
    Rep Power: 26643
    DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000) DustinTheHuss has much to be proud of. One of the best! (+20000)
    DustinTheHuss is offline
    Originally Posted by devopsengineer View Post
    Where to find those?
    Look them up online.

    I know a nerdy guy who found a nerdy girl with the same interests on a special dating site. I mean they have so many common interests it's crazy.
    DustyTheHussy
    Trained with an IFBB Pro
    PADI Certified
    Reply With Quote

  18. #18
    Registered User McJellz's Avatar
    Join Date: Mar 2021
    Age: 51
    Posts: 10
    Rep Power: 0
    McJellz is not very well liked. (-100) McJellz is not very well liked. (-100) McJellz is not very well liked. (-100) McJellz is not very well liked. (-100) McJellz is not very well liked. (-100) McJellz is not very well liked. (-100) McJellz is not very well liked. (-100) McJellz is not very well liked. (-100) McJellz is not very well liked. (-100) McJellz is not very well liked. (-100) McJellz is not very well liked. (-100)
    McJellz is offline
    Originally Posted by devopsengineer View Post
    So I have been working on myself.

    I built a big house, I have my own IT consulting company. I make good money. And it will be even better. In free time I study and finish certifications. I go to gym regularly.

    But I am still kisless virgin. And women are very standofish when I try to talk with them. Online they seldom even respond, if they respond, chat goes nowhere. I get very few matches. Maybe one a month.

    Seems like some bug in the matrix.

    It's all about confidence and personality. Most girls dont actually GAF about money unless they want to use you in some way and flaunting it isn't a turn on. Be humble about your finances. Girls are simple, we just want to feel important.
    Reply With Quote

  19. #19
    Registered User skinnyfat88's Avatar
    Join Date: Apr 2014
    Location: Canada
    Age: 33
    Posts: 3,896
    Rep Power: 15526
    skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000) skinnyfat88 is a splendid one to behold. (+10000)
    skinnyfat88 is offline
    Originally Posted by devopsengineer View Post
    Where to find those?
    The grocery store. Aisle 9.

    Duh of course you find them online.
    Owns IT company and doesn't know to look online for these things?
    Reply With Quote

  20. #20
    Registered User Skezo's Avatar
    Join Date: Nov 2011
    Age: 31
    Posts: 2,287
    Rep Power: 5141
    Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000) Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000) Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000) Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000) Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000) Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000) Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000) Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000) Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000) Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000) Skezo is a name known to all. (+5000)
    Skezo is offline
    Height?
    I'm like 6'2 and completely average face and went to the bar for the first time in a year last weekend and within an hour I had a girl I just met ask me to leave and come to her place. IRL is so much easier than online crap.
    Reply With Quote

  21. #21
    Registered User 808Handyman's Avatar
    Join Date: Mar 2021
    Age: 51
    Posts: 38
    Rep Power: 0
    808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50)
    808Handyman is offline
    I’ll agree. Online crap blows. I’m 5’11 (tall for Hawaii) and average-slightly above average face but I’m not shy to talk to girls IRL. Being confident and being yourself is all it takes. I rarely have a girl turn me down after chatting them up. Ask about them and let them talk. Take what they say and lead it into questions like “yeah I’ve been there too...how’d you enjoy blah blah blah.” It’s really not rocket science.

    Every girl I’ve met online then in real life is amazed at my honest and genuine character. I’m just goofing off making jokes and being myself, treating them as if they’re one of my buddys that I want to f**q (no homo).

    But I prefer meeting IRL vs online. Girls online have too many options, especially the hot ones.

    Going on a date tonight with a girl I been chatting up for a couple weeks online. Japanese, thick but not too thick, 4’9”, cute face, I’m pretty sure it’ll be easy to keep her interested and around for a while. All I really do around girls is goof off and be myself. They like having fun. They’ll stick around if they’re having fun with you.
    Reply With Quote

  22. #22
    Registered User CheeseFreak's Avatar
    Join Date: Jun 2015
    Location: Gaborone, Kweneng, Botswana
    Age: 24
    Posts: 1,560
    Rep Power: 1852
    CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000) CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000) CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000) CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000) CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000) CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000) CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000) CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000) CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000) CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000) CheeseFreak is just really nice. (+1000)
    CheeseFreak is offline
    Being successful career wise and financially doesn't mean success socially. Maybe you lack game and confidence which also brings down looks somehow. Just stop chasing and trying so hard to find it. It will eventually come to you I guess. And work on your social skills. Up your game? Idk
    Last edited by CheeseFreak; 03-12-2021 at 11:22 PM.
    Reply With Quote

  23. #23
    Registered User 808Handyman's Avatar
    Join Date: Mar 2021
    Age: 51
    Posts: 38
    Rep Power: 0
    808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50)
    808Handyman is offline
    Originally Posted by CheeseFreak View Post
    Being successful career wise and financially doesn't mean success socially. Maybe you lack game and confidence which also brings down looks somehow. Just stop chasing and trying so hard to find it. It will eventually come to you I guess. And work on your social skills. Up your game? Idk
    Social skills is where it’s at. My chubby, 6/10 face, 5’10” half Asian male cousin has great social skills. He makes women laugh and gets laid often by average and above average girls. I was always impressed and intrigued growing up with him.
    Single life again
    808 crew
    5’11” tall Asian crew

    Started weights again Nov 2020
    2/21 PR: S 315 B 275 D 425 @206
    3/14/21: PR 405x3 conventional
    Chasing 500 deadlift

    Diet crew
    3/1/21-206 going for 190 @ 8% by June 1
    3/14/21-205
    4/15/21-201 finally losing weight after shifting to 1500-1800 cal/day

    Sober since March 1
    Reply With Quote

  24. #24
    Banned Dirtylocks's Avatar
    Join Date: Aug 2009
    Posts: 5,653
    Rep Power: 0
    Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000) Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000) Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000) Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000) Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000) Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000) Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000) Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000) Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000) Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000) Dirtylocks is a name known to all. (+5000)
    Dirtylocks is offline
    Pics of face OP?
    Reply With Quote

  25. #25
    Registered User devopsengineer's Avatar
    Join Date: Jul 2017
    Location: Serbia
    Age: 33
    Posts: 1,779
    Rep Power: 322
    devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250)
    devopsengineer is offline
    Originally Posted by Skezo View Post
    Height?
    I'm like 6'2 and completely average face and went to the bar for the first time in a year last weekend and within an hour I had a girl I just met ask me to leave and come to her place. IRL is so much easier than online crap.
    I am 5.11 (exactly 180cm)

    But I leave in a country that is 2nd in the world by average height. So I am sligtly below average in height.
    “People said I should accept the world. Bull****! I don't accept the world.”

    ― Richard M. Stallman
    Reply With Quote

  26. #26
    Registered User devopsengineer's Avatar
    Join Date: Jul 2017
    Location: Serbia
    Age: 33
    Posts: 1,779
    Rep Power: 322
    devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250) devopsengineer has a spectacular aura about. (+250)
    devopsengineer is offline
    Originally Posted by Dirtylocks View Post
    Pics of face OP?
    I know I am ugly, don't need a confirmation.
    “People said I should accept the world. Bull****! I don't accept the world.”

    ― Richard M. Stallman
    Reply With Quote

  27. #27
    Registered User Sobekhotep's Avatar
    Join Date: Apr 2016
    Age: 34
    Posts: 304
    Rep Power: 1654
    Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000) Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000) Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000) Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000) Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000) Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000) Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000) Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000) Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000) Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000) Sobekhotep is just really nice. (+1000)
    Sobekhotep is offline
    Originally Posted by iloveus View Post
    There’s a lot of advice on attracting women out there. And what most of it misses is that attraction, seduction, intimacy, sex, whatever you want to call it — is an emotional process, not a physical or social one. You can say the “wrong” things and still attract a woman. You can say all of the “right” things and repel her. What matters is the intention, the motivation, the authenticity. To improve your dating life, you must improve your emotional life — how you feel about yourself and others, how you express yourself to others, etc.

    It’s not about learning lines or routines or dressing up a certain way. It’s about unmasking the unique and attractive man within yourself and joyfully expressing it to the women of the world.

    That may sound vague, but it has very real repercussions on your interactions with women.

    People choose who they’re going to be with based on how they feel around that person. For us men, it’s often quite simple. A beautiful woman makes us feel aroused, so we pursue sex with her. If we feel cared for, respected and admired by her, we pursue a relationship with her.

    But women experience sexuality differently than we do, so it can be a bit more complicated and hard for us to decipher what makes them feel attracted to us. But the principle remains the same. Women go with men who make them feel a certain way. There are a number of ways to elicit emotion in a woman, and the way in which you go about eliciting that emotion will determine the quality and quantity (or lack thereof) of the relationships you have with women.

    What’s I’m saying is this: you’ll find a lot of varying advice out there on how to attract women — some will say to tease them, some will say to be selfish and rude around them, some will say to buy them gifts, others will say to be cold and calculating — whichever of these avenues you choose to pursue with women, that is the corresponding relationship you’ll create.

    The way which you pursue women will determine which ones you end up with.
    If you choose to be cold, calculating and manipulative with women, you will naturally screen for women who will create a cold, calculating and manipulative relationship with you. If you pursue women with a neediness and an idealization of them, then you will attract equally naive and insecure women who will create a relationship of neediness and false idolization. If you pursue women in a rude and harsh manner, you will attract women who respond to harsh emotions and elicit harsh emotions themselves.

    I encourage men to pursue women with honesty and authenticity because this screens for women who are honest, authentic and conscientious themselves, making for far better relationships.

    The other reason I encourage men to pursue women with authenticity is that communicating your sexuality with women openly forces you to become a confident and integrated man. In the short-term, this can be more painful and difficult. But in the long run, this reduces emotional neediness and molds you into a bold and confident man who draws women to him like a magnet.


    Sexual attraction from women is determined by status, status is determined by behavior, and what determines whether a man has attractive behavior or not is his perception of himself relative to those around him, particularly women. I refer to this concept as neediness and believe the degree of a man’s neediness around women will determine how attractive or unattractive his behavior around them will be.

    For instance, a needy man may come up with really clever jokes and have a great job, but he will use them to impress her and get validation from her — needy behaviors — and will therefore be perceived to be unattractive. Whereas a non-needy man may talk about silly conversation topics, openly admit that he’s between jobs, but get very excited and passionate about his rock climbing hobby. Believe it or not, this man will be seen as attractive because his behaviors will be genuine, authentic, and non-needy. The reason is he’s basing his behavior around her on his perception of himself and not her perception of him.

    The needy man, despite having a nice job and clever things to say, is a follower. He’s a pawn of those around him. He will only go so far. The non-needy man, even though he may be a bit aimless and in a downturn in his life, he will end up living an enriching and unique life that suits him and makes him happier.

    If a man values the perceptions of others more than his perception of himself, then he will naturally behave in an unattractive way around them. If he trusts his perception of himself more than the perceptions of those around him, then he will be perceived as a non-needy man, and therefore behave attractively. All of the outward appearances of status and resources — the fitness, the nice clothes, the cool lifestyle — these things are a result of a man who is inwardly driven, a man who invests in himself and takes care of himself.

    When all is said and done, all attractive traits in a man can be traced back to his lack of neediness.
    Solid post brah, I agree 100% with what you said.
    Reply With Quote

  28. #28
    Registered User 808Handyman's Avatar
    Join Date: Mar 2021
    Age: 51
    Posts: 38
    Rep Power: 0
    808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50) 808Handyman will become famous soon enough. (+50)
    808Handyman is offline
    Op, if you feel ugly and short, you gotta maximize everything else. Get your hair styled by a pro barber that can maximize your hair looks. Grow beard or goatee or shave clean if barber says that fits your face best. Get your clothes tailored. Or get new clothes. Hit the gym hard for muscles. Diet for shreds. Definitely work on your social game with friends etc. Read books on how to socialize. Do everything in your power to improve what you can.

    I did all of this 6 years ago after a long relationship ended with the help of my barber and lady friends so that I could maximize myself. Girls do that all the time (makeup, lashes, nails, clothes), so why shouldn’t guys (no homo)?
    Single life again
    808 crew
    5’11” tall Asian crew

    Started weights again Nov 2020
    2/21 PR: S 315 B 275 D 425 @206
    3/14/21: PR 405x3 conventional
    Chasing 500 deadlift

    Diet crew
    3/1/21-206 going for 190 @ 8% by June 1
    3/14/21-205
    4/15/21-201 finally losing weight after shifting to 1500-1800 cal/day

    Sober since March 1
    Reply With Quote

  29. #29
    Registered User scumpxharry's Avatar
    Join Date: Dec 2020
    Posts: 20
    Rep Power: 0
    scumpxharry is on a distinguished road. (+10)
    scumpxharry is offline
    Originally Posted by iloveus View Post
    There’s a lot of advice on attracting women out there. And what most of it misses is that attraction, seduction, intimacy, sex, whatever you want to call it — is an emotional process, not a physical or social one. You can say the “wrong” things and still attract a woman. You can say all of the “right” things and repel her. What matters is the intention, the motivation, the authenticity. To improve your dating life, you must improve your emotional life — how you feel about yourself and others, how you express yourself to others, etc.

    It’s not about learning lines or routines or dressing up a certain way. It’s about unmasking the unique and attractive man within yourself and joyfully expressing it to the women of the world.

    That may sound vague, but it has very real repercussions on your interactions with women.

    People choose who they’re going to be with based on how they feel around that person. For us men, it’s often quite simple. A beautiful woman makes us feel aroused, so we pursue sex with her. If we feel cared for, respected and admired by her, we pursue a relationship with her.

    But women experience sexuality differently than we do, so it can be a bit more complicated and hard for us to decipher what makes them feel attracted to us. But the principle remains the same. Women go with men who make them feel a certain way. There are a number of ways to elicit emotion in a woman, and the way in which you go about eliciting that emotion will determine the quality and quantity (or lack thereof) of the relationships you have with women.

    What’s I’m saying is this: you’ll find a lot of varying advice out there on how to attract women — some will say to tease them, some will say to be selfish and rude around them, some will say to buy them gifts, others will say to be cold and calculating — whichever of these avenues you choose to pursue with women, that is the corresponding relationship you’ll create.

    The way which you pursue women will determine which ones you end up with.
    If you choose to be cold, calculating and manipulative with women, you will naturally screen for women who will create a cold, calculating and manipulative relationship with you. If you pursue women with a neediness and an idealization of them, then you will attract equally naive and insecure women who will create a relationship of neediness and false idolization. If you pursue women in a rude and harsh manner, you will attract women who respond to harsh emotions and elicit harsh emotions themselves.

    I encourage men to pursue women with honesty and authenticity because this screens for women who are honest, authentic and conscientious themselves, making for far better relationships.

    The other reason I encourage men to pursue women with authenticity is that communicating your sexuality with women openly forces you to become a confident and integrated man. In the short-term, this can be more painful and difficult. But in the long run, this reduces emotional neediness and molds you into a bold and confident man who draws women to him like a magnet.


    Sexual attraction from women is determined by status, status is determined by behavior, and what determines whether a man has attractive behavior or not is his perception of himself relative to those around him, particularly women. I refer to this concept as neediness and believe the degree of a man’s neediness around women will determine how attractive or unattractive his behavior around them will be.

    For instance, a needy man may come up with really clever jokes and have a great job, but he will use them to impress her and get validation from her — needy behaviors — and will therefore be perceived to be unattractive. Whereas a non-needy man may talk about silly conversation topics, openly admit that he’s between jobs, but get very excited and passionate about his rock climbing hobby. Believe it or not, this man will be seen as attractive because his behaviors will be genuine, authentic, and non-needy. The reason is he’s basing his behavior around her on his perception of himself and not her perception of him.

    The needy man, despite having a nice job and clever things to say, is a follower. He’s a pawn of those around him. He will only go so far. The non-needy man, even though he may be a bit aimless and in a downturn in his life, he will end up living an enriching and unique life that suits him and makes him happier.

    If a man values the perceptions of others more than his perception of himself, then he will naturally behave in an unattractive way around them. If he trusts his perception of himself more than the perceptions of those around him, then he will be perceived as a non-needy man, and therefore behave attractively. All of the outward appearances of status and resources — the fitness, the nice clothes, the cool lifestyle — these things are a result of a man who is inwardly driven, a man who invests in himself and takes care of himself.

    When all is said and done, all attractive traits in a man can be traced back to his lack of neediness.
    This is a copy paste of Mark Manson
    Reply With Quote

  30. #30
    Registered User GeezersPalace's Avatar
    Join Date: Jan 2016
    Age: 36
    Posts: 342
    Rep Power: 614
    GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500) GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500) GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500) GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500) GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500) GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500) GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500) GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500) GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500) GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500) GeezersPalace is a jewel in the rough. (+500)
    GeezersPalace is offline
    What city do you live in?

    Any retard can buy a big house outside of a major center in 2021, especielly with the current sub prime housing loan xonditions on offer.
    Reply With Quote

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
www.000webhost.com