Thread: Matthew Hussey (dating coach) shares some great insight on guy's perspective...

Of a break up.

This is pretty real as it gets, and it's intense.

Overall I find him to be a massive white knight/cuck.

But some decent advice in this one when it comes to them leaving being the greatest signal of all they weren’t it.

I can appreciate the notion of spurring another individual on in their internal battles, but I can't fully get on board with what he's saying and the way he's saying it.

I tend to be more brutally honest rather than lovingly Frank, I understand he can't come out and say "boo hoo *******" in this scenario (not what I'd say but you get the gest), I find it more effective in producing positive results. Also, I don't believe you come out on the other side of things a better man in certain situations.

The part about ego is excellent, where he addresses his ego hit the mark. Freud came to mind.


"In mourning it is the world which has become poor and empty; in melancholia it is the ego itself." -Freud

"In this way the ego detaches itself from the external world. It is more correct to say: Originally the ego includes everything, later it detaches from itself the external world. The ego-feeling we are aware of now is thus only a shrunken vestige of a far more extensive feeling - a feeling which embraced the universe and expressed an inseparable connection of the ego with the external world." -Freud


Psychology is amazing, highly applicable. You'll never have to guess what someone's thinking. Accumulate enough information and you'll have the ability to construct a subjects thoughts and behaviors before they do so themselves. Even more fascinating, you make them your own. Indeed the cards can never do me wrong.

My ultimate one liner for this guy would be, "good judgement comes from experience, and a considerable amount of experience comes from bad judgement. Winkheadturn.gif".

Originally Posted by friesbruh

Overall I find him to be a massive white knight/cuck.

But some decent advice in this one when it comes to them leaving being the greatest signal of all they weren’t it.

Nah bro.

Originally Posted by Hmatt330

Does this mean that a connection between the ego & “the universe” is a good thing?
I thought all these spiritual/psych leaders preach death of an ego

Educate yourself and come to your own conclusion is my suggestion. If your asking me what my position is, I don't have one. It simply is what it is, nothing more nothing less.