Thread: How to approach girls at parties?

I have zero game. I need help. When I'm at a college party, how do I approach girls. I haven't been getting much action and that's because I usually don't approach first. Girls almost never approach first and the guy is always expected to approach first, so that's partially my problem.

What excuse can I have to talk to a girl at a party? If she's with her friends, what do I do about them when I only wanna talk to the girl? How do I escalate when talking to a girl? How do I rub off rejection especially if people around us notice me getting rejected?

Talk to more people in general at parties/in social situations. Both men and women. The flirting will come in time when you pickup on cues etc etc

Don't stress yourself out with having a specific "target" in mind. Just work on getting more comfortable in general and it will come in time.

Originally Posted by TheClassGeneral

I have zero game. I need help. When I'm at a college party, how do I approach girls. I haven't been getting much action and that's because I usually don't approach first. Girls almost never approach first and the guy is always expected to approach first, so that's partially my problem.

What excuse can I have to talk to a girl at a party? If she's with her friends, what do I do about them when I only wanna talk to the girl? How do I escalate when talking to a girl? How do I rub off rejection especially if people around us notice me getting rejected?

Dr. Fauci said college parties are banned

Originally Posted by TheClassGeneral

I have zero game. I need help. When I'm at a college party, how do I approach girls. I haven't been getting much action and that's because I usually don't approach first. Girls almost never approach first and the guy is always expected to approach first, so that's partially my problem.

What excuse can I have to talk to a girl at a party? If she's with her friends, what do I do about them when I only wanna talk to the girl? How do I escalate when talking to a girl? How do I rub off rejection especially if people around us notice me getting rejected?

Walk up to them and talk to them, don’t script it. Worst case scenario they’ll think you’re a weirdo, best case you’ll get laid. You always have a 50 50 shot.

Where do college parties exist these days?

Originally Posted by Bello7898

ahhhh in every college

My daughter is in high school and there are no parties with Covid??

Just go and say "hey I have no game at this but ur cute" and then ask her " What do we do now? "

Or just go and be straightup forward with your desires and don't cut around the bush.

you'll find it very useful for people who think they have "no game"

Stop worrying, being shy,shutting yourself in,it's hard ,and immediately on the dialogue tete-a-tete not to go out, you need to develop communication skills. As a result, her friends will already advise her to start communicating with you))