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    hypothetical question about FWB with a girl

    assuming you were FWB with a girl - so you were both allowed to see other people.

    is that not kind of weird? you'd be smashing the girl, and then a few days later, she's taking another dick, and a few days after that another one, and then the next week comes around and you're smashing again.

    Even if it's just 1 other guy not 2 like in the above example - is it not weird to consistently, week after week, bang a girl who is seeing another dude on the days you're not around?

    I find it really weird - but I also believe im correct in thinking this is normal for people in this arrangement
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    Yes I wouldn't do that, i don't understand people who "date" but aren't official, brb you are seeing each other getting food but also exploring other options and maybe dick like wtf?
    really weird world we live in atm
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    This is what you do with low value women you aren't really interested in. Obviously if you are dating a few women like tha they're probably seeing other men too.

    If really interested in someone the exclusive talk will come up sooner rather than later.
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    Nothing wrong with that imo, this is FWB, not an open relationship.
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    It’s great, don’t have to hear her whine about her day, or take her out to places like a real gf.
    If you’re slinging good pipe she is most likely only going to end up having you as the only one she’s phukking(which is why they catch feels)
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    Pretty normal people use this type of thing between relationships. Doesn’t mean a girl has 5 FWB’s. But isn’t it weird if you bang one girl one week and another the next and then back to that same girl?
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    My two experiences with FWB:

    1. Was an ex gf. We agreed to FWB about a year after we brokeup. We agreed we'd be the only ppl we'd sleep with w/o protection and that there should be a few days grace period between hooking up with other ppl.

    2. I was working in another city for the summer. Started sleeping with a girl. She asked if I'd agree to monogamy for rest of summer. I said no. She said okay well I want to know if you sleep with anyone else (& if you used protection) so I can decide if I want to sleep with you again. I said okay.
    I ended up sleeping with someone else about 2 weeks before the end of summer (and ended up sleeping with another one the week after that) and ghosted her. Once I moved back I texted her apologizing for ghosting and explained why and she figured that was the reason why.

    If I got into another casual but steady situation now where I didn't want to date I'd probably use protection, or do something like one of the above scenarios, or suggest we put a time limit on it and talk again after said time limit was up.

    I think most people just roll the dice and don't communicate much. Personally, monogamy (even temporary) scares me less now that I'm able to communicate better and end things when I want.
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    I played that game in my late 20's

    I had multiple that knew about each other...never met, but knew I was seeing other women and 2 of them, that I knew of we're seeing other guys. If I called/texted and they didn't answer or respond I knew what was up and the same went for them. For the most part we planned our nights together but also if I was out and met somebody new I had no obligations.

    I ended up running into one of the gals one night and she was with the other guy she was seeing...who come to find out she had been dating for like 6 months and he didn't know she was hooking up with me and she told me that night that we had to end our arrangement because she really liked him and "wanted to see where it goes" I wished her luck and went about my night. She called me 2 weeks later, still dating the guy, wanting to know what I was doing Tuesday night.
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    Originally Posted by bsmit107 View Post
    I played that game in my late 20's

    I had multiple that knew about each other...never met, but knew I was seeing other women and 2 of them, that I knew of we're seeing other guys. If I called/texted and they didn't answer or respond I knew what was up and the same went for them. For the most part we planned our nights together but also if I was out and met somebody new I had no obligations.

    I ended up running into one of the gals one night and she was with the other guy she was seeing...who come to find out she had been dating for like 6 months and he didn't know she was hooking up with me and she told me that night that we had to end our arrangement because she really liked him and "wanted to see where it goes" I wished her luck and went about my night. She called me 2 weeks later, still dating the guy, wanting to know what I was doing Tuesday night.
    And how was the Tuesday night ?
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    Originally Posted by smashedurgfx10 View Post
    assuming you were FWB with a girl - so you were both allowed to see other people.

    is that not kind of weird? you'd be smashing the girl, and then a few days later, she's taking another dick, and a few days after that another one, and then the next week comes around and you're smashing again.

    Even if it's just 1 other guy not 2 like in the above example - is it not weird to consistently, week after week, bang a girl who is seeing another dude on the days you're not around?

    I find it really weird - but I also believe im correct in thinking this is normal for people in this arrangement
    sure it's weird if you think about it, but why think about it when you know about it? This should just be assumed, and doesn't deserve a second though, you know already, let it be or don't be in this arrangement. All situations have certain valid assumptions, and you entertain certain situations having understood those assumptions.
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    And how was the Tuesday night ?
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