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    Broke off 4 year relationship honestly just to be alone

    Idk if it was COVID or what, but honestly being together 24/7 I was losing my ****ing mind

    Prob the hottest/best personality girl to ever come into my life I just could not handle it

    Now I’m sitting on my couch alone watching Yellowstone thinking this is the life

    Am I fukked? How am I ever gonna yet married?
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    Am I fukked? How am I ever gonna yet married?
    I guess you won't? I was wondering that very question as I was reading your post, but as soon as I got to the 4th line, looks like it's pretty clear, we both know that it's not going to happen then. If you're past 28 and doing this, then yeah, not getting married. Maybe that's the type of life you want to live anyway. Good time to start getting used to it.
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    If you end up wanting her back you'll know to set boundaries as far as doing what you can to have more time for yourself (but I understand it's hard w/ COVID).
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    A few simple rules are all you needed:
    1. No living together. Period.
    2. Sleep overs are limited to 1-2 days per week. Max.
    3. You take at least 2-3 days per week to yourself. Where you don't see her in person.




    I've a close friend that married a woman with a house and he kept his place. Married her under the conditions that he stays at his house 3 nights per week. Just to drink/chill/decompress. They've been together about 18 years now. Rock solid marriage.


    Another close friend has his own bedroom in his house. Wife texts him before going in to bother him when he's there. Rock solid marriage of 15 years.


    They set boundaries and let them know they need personal space.
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    Only time you should be okay to be with someone 24/7 is if she’s your soulmate
    If it’s not that, you’ll have to find ways to tolerate her if you chose her for the genetics she would give to your kids
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    Originally Posted by guest89 View Post
    A few simple rules are all you needed:
    1. No living together. Period.
    2. Sleep overs are limited to 1-2 days per week. Max.
    3. You take at least 2-3 days per week to yourself. Where you don't see her in person.




    I've a close friend that married a woman with a house and he kept his place. Married her under the conditions that he stays at his house 3 nights per week. Just to drink/chill/decompress. They've been together about 18 years now. Rock solid marriage.


    Another close friend has his own bedroom in his house. Wife texts him before going in to bother him when he's there. Rock solid marriage of 15 years.


    They set boundaries and let them know they need personal space.
    This sounds like a fking dream

    I feel like there are under 20 females on the planet who would actually agree to this
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    Originally Posted by guest89 View Post

    I've a close friend that married a woman with a house and he kept his place. Married her under the conditions that he stays at his house 3 nights per week. Just to drink/chill/decompress. They've been together about 18 years now. Rock solid marriage.


    Another close friend has his own bedroom in his house. Wife texts him before going in to bother him when he's there. Rock solid marriage of 15 years.


    They set boundaries and let them know they need personal space.
    This sounds great but having two places would cost a lot.

    Plus if you had kids it'd get tricky.
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    Originally Posted by guest89 View Post
    A few simple rules are all you needed:
    1. No living together. Period.
    2. Sleep overs are limited to 1-2 days per week. Max.
    3. You take at least 2-3 days per week to yourself. Where you don't see her in person.




    I've a close friend that married a woman with a house and he kept his place. Married her under the conditions that he stays at his house 3 nights per week. Just to drink/chill/decompress. They've been together about 18 years now. Rock solid marriage.


    Another close friend has his own bedroom in his house. Wife texts him before going in to bother him when he's there. Rock solid marriage of 15 years.


    They set boundaries and let them know they need personal space.
    This sounds like a dream relationship for most men, but I wish all men the best in believing they're going to find a woman in their late 20s-early 30s who are going to be cool with that situation. It sure as hell didn't work for me lol. My recent ex of 2 years and I are no longer together because of this being exactly my ideal relationship scenario that I tried. Being fun cool, loving, best friends, loyal, her family loves me, 5 trips in 9 months you'd figure most women would be happy and satisfied. Lol nope....... "when are we moving in together. I'm not staying with you if you don't get your own place." All that right after a vacation to Destin which I paid everything for. Oh well.
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    Originally Posted by the700level View Post
    Idk if it was COVID or what, but honestly being together 24/7 I was losing my ****ing mind

    Prob the hottest/best personality girl to ever come into my life I just could not handle it

    Now I’m sitting on my couch alone watching Yellowstone thinking this is the life

    Am I fukked? How am I ever gonna yet married?
    Ive been there OP. Ive done the same thing for the same reason. When you are young you have the time. Just remember there is always a trade off. The day will come when you will feel the same way about being alone.

    You have to choose one or the other eventually but you at least get to take your pick

    Maybe you should notbhave broke up with her if yiu feel that way about her andnjust suggested living togetger at this time is not the best idea if you both have a long term projection for the relationship
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    you sound a lot like me op. i need 2-3 days a week to just hang by myself and not worry about other people's shiit. to date, most girls couldn't last, and i didn't mind it too much after a few days. there's no point in trying to force things. you found your formula for happiness. don't compromise it for anyone.
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    Originally Posted by the700level View Post
    This sounds like a fking dream

    I feel like there are under 20 females on the planet who would actually agree to this
    It really just depends on the man in question. Not the woman.

    The dude with his own place married a good looking woman with a professional career that makes 280k per year. The other dude has a stay at home wife who doesn't work. Just a matter of being in charge of their relationships.



    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    This sounds great but having two places would cost a lot.

    Plus if you had kids it'd get tricky.
    You have to be successful in order for that sort of thing to work. My dad has 6 brothers and all 7 of them have ALWAYS had hunting/fishing camps/cabins in rural places 1h-4h drive from where we live.


    It was always pretty much a given that 2-3 months out of the year during hunting season they'd be there every weekend. And occasionally a week at a time. And during summer months maybe 1-2 weekends a month fishing/riding 4-wheelers, etc. It helped that the wives were allowed to go during non-hunting season for the occasional weekend trip. But the other trips were 'for the guys'. That sort of thing is super common where I live (Louisiana). Nearly all females just accept if they are with a dude into the outdoors/hunting that's the way it goes.







    I've already made it clear to my GF if we stay together long term I'm either buying a house-boat or a cabin/hunting camp somewhere. I need my space.

    It really just makes a huge difference when you have your schit together. IE you own a house before you're with them. You've the money to do what you want and don't need to consult them or ask permission, etc.
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    Originally Posted by xvicknumber7x View Post
    you sound a lot like me op. i need 2-3 days a week to just hang by myself and not worry about other people's shiit. to date, most girls couldn't last, and i didn't mind it too much after a few days. there's no point in trying to force things. you found your formula for happiness. don't compromise it for anyone.
    Bro I think about coming home to the same woman every night and cringe

    But i also think about being 70 with no children or family and also cringe

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    Kind of in a similar situation. Girl is madly in love with me. She has 2 kids that are cool and I stay at her house half the week and my apt the other half. I can’t wait to get back home. She thinks I’m cheating on her but it is. Ironic ever since I’ve been In a relationship so many girls have wanted to sleep by with me. I just like being in my apt. It’s clean and quiet. I just feel more healthy and free too
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    Originally Posted by Immichaelski View Post
    Kind of in a similar situation. Girl is madly in love with me. She has 2 kids that are cool and I stay at her house half the week and my apt the other half. I can’t wait to get back home. She thinks I’m cheating on her.
    No trust just because you have your own place?
    It's doomed.
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    Hell my girlfriend just tested positive for corona and now is upset that I’m not at her house snuggling with her. I have to work and can’t take any chance. She is calling me selfish like wtf you are being selfish
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    Originally Posted by Immichaelski View Post
    Hell my girlfriend just tested positive for corona and now is upset that I’m not at her house snuggling with her. I have to work and can’t take any chance. She is calling me selfish like wtf you are being selfish
    women lol
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    Originally Posted by Immichaelski View Post
    Hell my girlfriend just tested positive for corona and now is upset that I’m not at her house snuggling with her. I have to work and can’t take any chance. She is calling me selfish like wtf you are being selfish
    The red flags are piling up bro.
    Get out.
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    You made the right decision OP. She wasn't the one. Good job for not settling. You'll have regrets, but too few to mention. Better off being alone for awhile then being miserable for life.

    Been married 24 years, work from home. My wife has NO concept of space. Always in my way in a 3900 sq ft house. I get it.

    I enjoy the solitude when she goes out with her friends. Going to have a couple of scotches, start a fire, have a steak and watch TV.
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    Originally Posted by the700level View Post
    This sounds like a fking dream

    I feel like there are under 20 females on the planet who would actually agree to this
    Agree. Since both sexes are working today, its important to just relax and chill. All the women at work are chill, hot, good personalities but you can tell when they are stressed and you say to yourself man I would not want to go home to that....
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    Originally Posted by AlBHappy View Post
    You made the right decision OP. She wasn't the one. Good job for not settling. You'll have regrets, but too few to mention. Better off being alone for awhile then being miserable for life.

    Been married 24 years, work from home. My wife has NO concept of space. Always in my way in a 3900 sq ft house. I get it.

    I enjoy the solitude when she goes out with her friends. Going to have a couple of scotches, start a fire, have a steak and watch TV.
    I don’t know how you do it bro

    We must have very different personalities, I was DYING inside
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    Originally Posted by the700level View Post
    Bro I think about coming home to the same woman every night and cringe

    But i also think about being 70 with no children or family and also cringe

    Are we gonna make it?
    whats the problem with being 70 and by yourself? think of all of the amazing days you had between now and then doing whatever the fuuck you want to. if you stay in shape, you'll be fine even past 70. i think about a life surrounded by my good friends and whoever i am banging at the time, and i feel that is a life well lived as long as you are not deceptive or deceitful to the women you get involved with about your ideal future. if you lie youre a douche. just be honest and up front and enjoy the ride.
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    Originally Posted by the700level View Post
    I don’t know how you do it bro

    We must have very different personalities, I was DYING inside
    I met the right one. She still likes me after all these years. But yesterday, I was SO bored I had to get out of the house. Even with college football on.
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    Originally Posted by DTweb View Post
    People is getting very individualistic these days. **** instagram.
    What does this mean
    Disregard females, acquire real estate.

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    Originally Posted by the700level View Post
    This sounds like a fking dream

    I feel like there are under 20 females on the planet who would actually agree to this
    That may work for people in a second marriage or no plans for kids but good luck even finding that arrangement
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    Originally Posted by guest89 View Post
    A few simple rules are all you needed:
    1. No living together. Period.
    2. Sleep overs are limited to 1-2 days per week. Max.
    3. You take at least 2-3 days per week to yourself. Where you don't see her in person.




    I've a close friend that married a woman with a house and he kept his place. Married her under the conditions that he stays at his house 3 nights per week. Just to drink/chill/decompress. They've been together about 18 years now. Rock solid marriage.


    Another close friend has his own bedroom in his house. Wife texts him before going in to bother him when he's there. Rock solid marriage of 15 years.


    They set boundaries and let them know they need personal space.
    My wife and I have slept in separate rooms pretty much from the get go. We tried sharing a bed in the beginning but I quickly realized it wasn't going to work as she sleeps like she's in a coma but I'm the opposite.

    Just lol @ sharing a bed with another person. Most overrated thing ever. Thanks Jeff but no thanks.
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    Originally Posted by the700level View Post
    Bro I think about coming home to the same woman every night and cringe

    But i also think about being 70 with no children or family and also cringe

    Are we gonna make it?
    I have this same dilemma in my head.

    Some days i want that companionship you get from being in a long term relationship. Other days i want the new, and other days i want solitude.

    Right now I'm enjoying single life overall and seeing a few different girls, but i do wonder if im gonna be 60+ spending my days as that old loner.
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    I used to do this all the time and it was way before coivd. I'd get annoyed by her and want my space. Long story short, we broke up and i missed her a lot. I regret it to this day.

    Having your space is fine, but a complete break up is going to back fire on you. Especially since her personality was to your liking. You now how hard it is to find a woman with a personality these days? They literally just sit there and expected you to do EVERYTHING while they contribute just their vagiana to the conversation. Dating is rough.
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    Originally Posted by JoeDelts View Post
    Just lol @ sharing a bed with another person. Most overrated thing ever. Thanks Jeff but no thanks.

    Imagine not having a King sized bed. You sleep on a twin mattress? Fukin lolz
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    Originally Posted by LtGoose View Post
    Imagine not having a King sized bed. You sleep on a twin mattress? Fukin lolz
    Bro my wife is a LOUD sleeper. She'd snore and gnash/grind her teeth all night. I'd give her a good elbow to her side and it would barely even phase her. I thought I was going to go insane so that's when i peaced out and got my own room.
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