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    Leaving the first girlfriend I lived with was the best decisions of my life

    I know a guy younger than me who just decided to leave his first live-in girlfriend and he is struggling with it after speaking with him yesterday. I gave him some advice I'll share here.

    In my late 20s I left a smoking hot girlfriend with a great job that everyone loved. Most people in my life basically told me I was insane as this is the point in life one should settle down, and to not "let a good one get away". Nothing was bad in our relationship, I just didn't love it, I didn't feel for her how I thought I should nor was I living the life I wanted. And it was nothing major, things almost all guys I know deal with, the guilt trip for going fishing, watching sports, headed to meet with friends too much, etc. I was prepared to live my life single for the rest of my life if needed, I didn't need a relationship to be happy. Then as luck had it I meet my girl I have been with now for a decade, someone I truly care for and I feel truly cares for me, encouraging me to do things that make me happy and for once I am in a perfectly balanced relationship where not a minute goes by where I feel unhappy and or like the grass might be greener on the other side.

    Did I get lucky? Yes, in some ways, but I also put myself in the position to meet her. Although I wasn't looking I also wasn't still with my ex which I feel 90% of guys would have just "settled" with.
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    I did the same thing but I was 21 and just young and dumb. I coulda settled and we woulda bee ight but I was unhappy for a few different things and tbh I never had been with any other girls and I wanted to see how I'd do.

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    Originally Posted by mgftp View Post
    And it was nothing major, things almost all guys I know deal with, the guilt trip for going fishing, watching sports, headed to meet with friends too much, etc. I was prepared to live my life single for the rest of my life if needed, I didn't need a relationship to be happy. Then as luck had it I meet my girl I have been with now for a decade, someone I truly care for and I feel truly cares for me, encouraging me to do things that make me happy and for once I am in a perfectly balanced relationship where not a minute goes by where I feel unhappy and or like the grass might be greener on the other side.

    Did I get lucky? Yes, in some ways, but I also put myself in the position to meet her. Although I wasn't looking I also wasn't still with my ex which I feel 90% of guys would have just "settled" with.
    Being on the same page about encouraging each other to maintain healthy friendships is key.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    Being on the same page about encouraging each other to maintain healthy friendships is key.
    I agree. But honestly I would say about 90% of the people I know in relationships seem to have a partner that is a bit more selfish than encouraging.
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    Trying to change my ex (who I dumped for this exact reason) to be like your new wife. Only doing this because otherwise she's a 10/10 wife material

    I'm probably fuking up but whatever
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