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    Trying to approach a girl when she's with her friend at the gym

    So, there is this girl who I think is really pretty that I've been seeing at the gym lately and I would like to approach her and introduce myself. A friend suggested that I do this and ask if she wanted to go out an get smoothies or something of the sort. The only issue is that she's often with her friend when she comes and I've never seen them split up. We come around similar times in the morning, although she comes a bit later than I do. I come around 7, and she shows up around half an hour to an hour later. I want to try and make an introduction and maybe ask her if she wanted a smoothie or something but I find it difficult especially since this is a gym and she's with her friend too. It makes things already more difficult as is. What are some ways I can plan to talk to her or is this just a lost cause. I don't want to give up tho. Never give up. Never surrender.

    P.S. I notice they both have headphones in. BTW im not 50
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    Unless she is showing you clear signs of interest I wouldn’t even bother. Gyms are for working out not hooking up. And since she has headphones in she probably wants to workout in peace. Plus if she rejects you it’ll be awkward seeing her around
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    "Hey I've seen you here a couple times recently. What are you working on today?'

    simple as that, if you have the right body language, confidence, looks, and luck, then you're good. If she's with a friend, that's even better, because that means she's more than likely to be single.
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