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    Do you think this is an underrated red flag?

    If you are dating a girl and she talks about her ex, or past relationships and she always blames them "he was a stalker" "he was a psycho" "he was abusive" "he was a narcissist"

    compared to a girl who says something about their ex and why they didn't work out and then says but i've learnt from it, or it ended on good terms etc?
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    I think that can be a red flag. Especially if they say every ex was that way. Most people aren't going to sing their exes praises, but stalker, psycho, abuser, etc are kind of out there. I can't say that about any of my exes.
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    One ex with a personality disorder is unlucky. If anyone has multiple ex-es who all had personality disorders, yeah duh, that's a massive red flag.
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    red flag. You're going to tell me that your ex was a narcissistic, psychopathic abusing stalker and you dated him for YEARS. lmao you make poor life decisions and i want nothing to do with you.
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    Any girl willingly talking about her ex without being queried about it is giving off red flag signals.
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    Originally Posted by MirinCanadian99 View Post
    Any girl willingly talking about her ex without being queried about it is giving off red flag signals.
    Strong this. When a girl blurts out about an ex in general its pretty damning, with it being exponentially more damning the earlier they bring them up.

    For me this is far from an underrated red flag, if anything its been one of the most consistent ones I've noticed. Thats not to say exes can't come up in a tactful manner, but theres a big difference between it coming up in the natural flow of conversation and being lightly touched on, and it being blurted out without self control/awareness.
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    Originally Posted by chaoserver View Post
    Strong this. When a girl blurts out about an ex in general its pretty damning, with it being exponentially more damning the earlier they bring them up.

    For me this is far from an underrated red flag, if anything its been one of the most consistent ones I've noticed. Thats not to say exes can't come up in a tactful manner, but theres a big difference between it coming up in the natural flow of conversation and being lightly touched on, and it being blurted out without self control/awareness.
    Agreed. And this is when you should follow up and ask your girl if she still has her ex on her phone.
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    Originally Posted by 1320it View Post
    Agreed. And this is when you should follow up and ask your girl if she still has her ex on her phone.
    Eh its one of those things where the question doesn't need to even be asked. In my experience you can tell if its a problem situation just based off the way it comes up. Also to be clear its not a worry of them being into their ex as far as the red flag goes. Its more the lack of social grace/integrity and that if she's complaining about the other guy so easily this is probably the usual, and thus chances are she's the crazy one.
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    Originally Posted by chaoserver View Post
    Eh its one of those things where the question doesn't need to even be asked. In my experience you can tell if its a problem situation just based off the way it comes up. Also to be clear its not a worry of them being into their ex as far as the red flag goes. Its more the lack of social grace/integrity and that if she's complaining about the other guy so easily this is probably the usual, and thus chances are she's the crazy one.

    My ex girlfriend told me her ex was a "narcissist" and "psycho" and "cheats on all his girlfriends"

    so then i asked why did you say with him and she said "i don't know"

    was that a red flag?
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    Originally Posted by EliteCaremelo View Post
    My ex girlfriend told me her ex was a "narcissist" and "psycho" and "cheats on all his girlfriends"

    so then i asked why did you say with him and she said "i don't know"

    was that a red flag?
    Yep it is. A girl who respects herself would have left the relationship a long time ago.
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    Originally Posted by EliteCaremelo View Post
    My ex girlfriend told me her ex was a "narcissist" and "psycho" and "cheats on all his girlfriends"

    so then i asked why did you say with him and she said "i don't know"

    was that a red flag?
    It could be one. If it was her first relationship I wouldn't look too far into it as pretty much everyone has had an awful relationship. If it's constant failure after failure you tend to pick what is normal to you so it would suggest she herself is toxic as well.
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    She's basically saying she does nothing wrong and it's all their fault. You'll become the next narcissist as soon as you don't give her, her way. Anything doesn't go right, it's your fault.
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