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    Betrayed my gf

    2 months ago I betrayed my gf (together for 2 years) while on a self-destructive streak. I did it because I was in a dark place after having lost my dad and a few other things, and thought she was going to abandon me. It is not an excuse, but it is the reason why I self-sabotaged. She hasn't blocked me anywhere and when I would reach out the first few weeks she would reply angrily. I gave her a few weeks of space and just sent her a text the other day offering my condolences and support because her aunt died and she replied with a middle finger. Is it lost for good? I mean, why not just block me if I anger her so much?

    How can I get her back? I felt, and still feel, guilty as hell ever since I broke her trust, but I don't want to lose her for good.
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    How did you betray her?
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    Originally Posted by BigElephant View Post
    How did you betray her?
    I ghosted her for a week, cheated on her and told her, with malicious intent, what I did when I spoke with her again. I know I acted with immaturity and feel like a POS. But she is actually one of the good girls and I'd like a second chance

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    Originally Posted by friendzonebrah View Post
    I ghosted her for a week, cheated on her and told her, with malicious intent, what I did when I spoke with her again. I know I acted with immaturity and feel like a POS. But she is actually one of the good girls and I'd like a second chance



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    You don't deserve her tbh. Go find someone else.
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    Originally Posted by friendzonebrah View Post
    I ghosted her for a week, cheated on her and told her, with malicious intent, what I did when I spoke with her again. I know I acted with immaturity and feel like a POS. But she is actually one of the good girls and I'd like a second chance



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    lol, I wanted to say you need some growing up to do, and then I saw that... oh boy
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    Originally Posted by friendzonebrah View Post
    2 months ago I betrayed my gf (together for 2 years) while on a self-destructive streak. I did it because I was in a dark place after having lost my dad and a few other things, and thought she was going to abandon me. It is not an excuse, but it is the reason why I self-sabotaged. She hasn't blocked me anywhere and when I would reach out the first few weeks she would reply angrily. I gave her a few weeks of space and just sent her a text the other day offering my condolences and support because her aunt died and she replied with a middle finger. Is it lost for good? I mean, why not just block me if I anger her so much?

    How can I get her back? I felt, and still feel, guilty as hell ever since I broke her trust, but I don't want to lose her for good.
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    Originally Posted by Adnim View Post
    You don't deserve her tbh. Go find someone else.
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    Yeah, I know this is the most likely outcome

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    lol, I wanted to say you need some growing up to do, and then I saw that... oh boy
    I'm 23, the age is 50 by default. But yeah I do need to grow up
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    Originally Posted by friendzonebrah View Post
    I ghosted her for a week, cheated on her and told her, with malicious intent, what I did when I spoke with her again. I know I acted with immaturity and feel like a POS. But she is actually one of the good girls and I'd like a second chance
    lol yeah i think it's time to chalk this up as a loss, and move on with a few lessons learned
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    Originally Posted by friendzonebrah View Post
    I ghosted her for a week, cheated on her and told her, with malicious intent, what I did when I spoke with her again. I know I acted with immaturity and feel like a POS. But she is actually one of the good girls and I'd like a second chance
    If she's a keeper, she will have too much self esteem to get back with you.

    Time to move on with your life and try not to be a massive phaggot going forward.
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    Wow, that's super chitty. Leave her be. Getting back together with a cheater will not be good for her at all.
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    OP move on, she'll never trust you again.
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    Thanks to all the replies ITT, will leave her alone.
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    If you broke her trust, you need to step away from her and leave her alone srs. It's a pretty world-shattering moment and the best thing for the two of you is space apart.

    Take some time to really think through why you acted the way you did. Find out what it was that really motivated you to act incendiary and burn down the relationship. You seem to be quite self-aware, and you understand that your actions didn't align with the person you are. Otherwise you wouldn't be posting it on the misc.

    And remember that just because you've done this, doesn't mean you have to be this person in the future. We don't have to embody our mistakes. Learn from it and move on to a new girl. And above all, don't repeat this behaviour. Get ahead of it next time.

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    Originally Posted by SultanofBling View Post
    If you broke her trust, you need to step away from her and leave her alone srs. It's a pretty world-shattering moment and the best thing for the two of you is space apart.

    Take some time to really think through why you acted the way you did. Find out what it was that really motivated you to act incendiary and burn down the relationship. You seem to be quite self-aware, and you understand that your actions didn't align with the person you are. Otherwise you wouldn't be posting it on the misc.

    And remember that just because you've done this, doesn't mean you have to be this person in the future. We don't have to embody our mistakes. Learn from it and move on to a new girl. And above all, don't repeat this behaviour. Get ahead of it next time.

    Wishing you all the luck. PM if you ever need a reach out for advice or just a vent
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    To me it sounds like you are emotionally immature and have a problem with communication.
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    Originally Posted by friendzonebrah View Post
    I ghosted her for a week, cheated on her and told her, with malicious intent, what I did when I spoke with her again. I know I acted with immaturity and feel like a POS. But she is actually one of the good girls and I'd like a second chance



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    Unfortunately you probably don't have any chance. I'd probably just stay away and spare her any more anger/pain.
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    Even if there was a chance at reconciliation she'd (rightfully) harbor some intense resentment. Don't do scummy sh!t OP. At least you realize you were a POS and you can avoid the same terrible behavior in the future.
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    Yeah if she takes you back at this moment it's doomed to implode.

    Go work on yourself and grow up like you said. Become a better person and don't make the same mistake in the future. Leave her be OP.
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    Thanks again to everyone, won't quote all of you to avoid crowding a concluded thread.

    I will not contact her again and work on my inner issues before I get involved with anyone else. Appreciate all the honesty.
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    Originally Posted by SultanofBling View Post
    If you broke her trust, you need to step away from her and leave her alone srs. It's a pretty world-shattering moment and the best thing for the two of you is space apart.

    Take some time to really think through why you acted the way you did. Find out what it was that really motivated you to act incendiary and burn down the relationship. You seem to be quite self-aware, and you understand that your actions didn't align with the person you are. Otherwise you wouldn't be posting it on the misc.

    And remember that just because you've done this, doesn't mean you have to be this person in the future. We don't have to embody our mistakes. Learn from it and move on to a new girl. And above all, don't repeat this behaviour. Get ahead of it next time.

    Wishing you all the luck. PM if you ever need a reach out for advice or just a vent
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    Originally Posted by friendzonebrah View Post
    2 months ago I betrayed my gf (together for 2 years) while on a self-destructive streak. I did it because I was in a dark place after having lost my dad and a few other things, and thought she was going to abandon me. It is not an excuse, but it is the reason why I self-sabotaged. She hasn't blocked me anywhere and when I would reach out the first few weeks she would reply angrily. I gave her a few weeks of space and just sent her a text the other day offering my condolences and support because her aunt died and she replied with a middle finger. Is it lost for good? I mean, why not just block me if I anger her so much?

    How can I get her back? I felt, and still feel, guilty as hell ever since I broke her trust, but I don't want to lose her for good.
    you're fked bro

    you just allowed her to go on full sloot spree
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    Originally Posted by friendzonebrah View Post
    I ghosted her for a week, cheated on her and told her, with malicious intent, what I did when I spoke with her again. I know I acted with immaturity and feel like a POS. But she is actually one of the good girls and I'd like a second chance
    She'd be a total dumbazz to give you another chance.
    Thus let me live, unseen, unknown;
    Thus unlamented let me die;
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    Tell where I lie.

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    Originally Posted by XterraRob View Post
    Someone just earned some future reps.

    See, told you I wasn't all R&P.

    80% R&P.

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    OP I hope you've been good about moving on from this.
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