Thread: Chaz Sez to my American Friends...

Needs better musical accompaniment.

Thanks, Chazzy. Pretty good advice

Originally Posted by ChazWood

Close your eyes...

wait; read this post first.

OK, close your eyes.

Now take a deeeeeep breath

and hold it...

Now EXHAHLE

Exhale until your lungs are empty; like a deflated, inflatable sex doll.

Repeat this twice; 4x a day

and chilllllllll.

Believe it or not I do this for half an hour each day, regardless of my mood. It is part of my behavioral therapy.

Originally Posted by ChazWood

... With performances like this:

....

In other news, did you see that the court action was FINALLY settled the other day, Led Zeppelin did write Stairway to Heaven, after the US supreme court refused to hear the case, the appeal died and Led Zep are no longer being legally disputed on this

Cool story, bro. Would read again.

I did exactly what you wrote.

I held my breath for TEN MINUTES.

99% of my brain cells died.

So now I'm a liberal.

Biden 2020. Cuz I like sniffing goats.

Originally Posted by ChazWood

I believe. Real talk: you've come so far in the last 10 years. While part of me misses the entertaining stories involving your temper and lack of restraint, another part of me is relieved to witness how you've worked hard to overcome destructive impulse and behavior. Major props, brother.



I was unaware of this situation, but pleased to know Led Zep no longer have that hanging over them.




Dude.... Where did I write to hold your breath for 10 minutes?

Frankly, your $hit is getting lame and even worse - boring. I get that you're raging aboot the prospect of soon being governed by commies, but that's no reason to spew these half-assed, weaksauce political rants.

I know you're motivated and can do better, so lets see a little more effort, please.

Nah. I lost motivation. There is no saving humanity. I can only control what's around me in the real world. real talk. And if you're offended by my posts, simply ignore them and move on.

Originally Posted by OldFartTom

In other news, did you see that the court action was FINALLY settled the other day, Led Zeppelin did write Stairway to Heaven, after the US supreme court refused to hear the case, the appeal died and Led Zep are no longer being legally disputed on this

Now we can go after them for In Through the Out Door.

Originally Posted by NorwichGrad

Nah. I lost motivation. There is no saving humanity. I can only control what's around me in the real world. real talk. And if you're offended by my posts, simply ignore them and move on.

You can't even control what's around you in the real world if you can't read simple instructions accurately.

Originally Posted by ChazWood

Dude.... Where did I write to hold your breath for 10 minutes?

Frankly, your $hit is getting lame and even worse - boring. I get that you're raging aboot the prospect of soon being governed by commies, but that's no reason to spew these half-assed, weaksauce political rants.

I know you're motivated and can do better, so lets see a little more effort, please.

Close your eyes, hold your breath, etc, etc...

Originally Posted by ChazWood

I believe. Real talk: you've come so far in the last 10 years. While part of me misses the entertaining stories involving your temper and lack of restraint, another part of me is relieved to witness how you've worked hard to overcome destructive impulse and behavior. Major props, brother.

Crazy as this might sound, this site (the OV35) helped me tremendously in seeing that my life was not the norm, as most of the people I was raised with were/are the same.

It wasn't until folks here thought I was BSing that I was like WTF why they keep questioning me or thinking I am making this sh!t up? The more I spoke to folks on here and the more advice I received from here I started reevaluating my life and putting things into perspective and decided to seek help.

So yeah in a nutshell I kind of owe a lot to the folks on here, so a big THANK YOU to you guys love me or hate me (or in between) you made an impact in my life in one way or another.

Originally Posted by bodyhard

Crazy as this might sound, this site (the OV35) helped me tremendously in seeing that my life was not the norm, as most of the people I was raised with were/are the same.

It wasn't until folks here thought I was BSing that I was like WTF why they keep questioning me or thinking I am making this sh!t up? The more I spoke to folks on here and the more advice I received from here I started reevaluating my life and putting things into perspective and decided to seek help.

So yeah in a nutshell I kind of owe a lot to the folks on here, so a big THANK YOU to you guys love me or hate me (or in between) you made an impact in my life in one way or another.

That's to your credit, John. You actually listen, which most people don't do.

Originally Posted by ElrondHubbard

That's to your credit, John. You actually listen, which most people don't do.

I actually wasn't listening in the beginning I was, in fact very defensive, it took years man.

Sometimes I feel bored and like I need the adrenaline, but thankfully it only happens once in a blue moon. In the beginning it was tough and man did I go through hell.

Originally Posted by bodyhard

Sometimes I feel bored and like I need the adrenaline

Try skydiving

Originally Posted by bodyhard

I actually wasn't listening in the beginning I was, in fact very defensive, it took years man.

Sometimes I feel bored and like I need the adrenaline, but thankfully it only happens once in a blue moon. In the beginning it was tough and man did I go through hell.

That's not an unusual trait at all, and it's not necessarily a negative. As eomrat suggested, a lot of those who participate in extreme sports have the same characteristic. At the risk of being accused of armchair psychoanalysis, for which I'm far from qualified, I'd guess that part of the difficulty it caused you is that it was combined with some serious chronic anger.

If the anger's gone away, great, but that doesn't mean the need for adrenaline has. It's just a matter of finding a more positive way of expressing it.

Originally Posted by eomrat

Try skydiving

Whoah! That's past adrenaline! However I have told Patty several times we should do this, my DIL did it but said there is an instructor on your back and I was like, OK but it has to be a woman.

Originally Posted by ElrondHubbard

That's not an unusual trait at all, and it's not necessarily a negative. As eomrat suggested, a lot of those who participate in extreme sports have the same characteristic. At the risk of being accused of armchair psychoanalysis, for which I'm far from qualified, I'd guess that part of the difficulty it caused you is that it was combined with some serious chronic anger.

If the anger's gone away, great, but that doesn't mean the need for adrenaline has. It's just a matter of finding a more positive way of expressing it.

My anger is not gone, but subsided significantly, there are times I am laying in bed watching a movie and out of nowhere I just get really fcking angry, I'll get up throw like a 100 air punches, body weight squats, jumping jacks and slowly as my heart rates starts to increase, the anger slowly subsides. Then I do breathing meditation thereafter as the breathing meditation doesn't work when I am already angered it only works as a preventive measure. But thankfully I have gotten less and less of those outburst.

Originally Posted by LWW

This is basically how I get with these fuking Democrats being authoritative over the virus, Everytime I hear thier lies and hypocracy.

I’m sure El does the same with Trump but the big difference is it’s the dems that hurt our freedom to try to make themselves powerful authoritative gods who want to be our parents and guardians.

The latest was Nacey, I hate that old bag, she said “we (meaning her) feeds the pooor in America” people don’t want to be feed bitch, people want to feed themselves, you stupid bitch, wtf is she doing in politics anyway, she should be doing other chit with her fiking grandkids or a side job, I don’t remember her ever getting voted as house speaker she just grabbed it. Fuk, I hate her, I bet you like her El? If so, you suck.

The bad part is once she dies I feel the new blood are going to be worse fuk.

It’s a shame an old guy with a decent DL supports that bitch, she really acted like an ass even to the CNN folks for questioning why she is stalling with this money. Fuk that C!!!!!

Originally Posted by mtpockets

I know right!

I'd say try Jiu Jitsu but I'm not sure you'll find a place in NYC that you can actually have a training partner instead of a dummies or how well your ego can handle you being tossed around and choked out like a child

Originally Posted by LWW

I guess I should take back when I said you should kiss the ground, your city shut down again, for no good reason.

I’ll never understand why you talk bad about a Trump, if he were the governor there you’d be able to train, instead the criminals get what they want and you get stuck wearing a mask to go outside, your bbj won’t do much against the protected thug with a semi auto.

I loathe our Governor too if that helps. Trumps a fuking clown, that's why. I can hold both thoughts. I don't mind the mask mandate. Its very little to ask for the chance I'm infected and could spread it to others. You lot who continue to fight it are the ones I don't understand but I guess its better to bitch about the lockdowns/restrictions than be part of the solution.

I don't need BJJ to save me from a gun. For the off chance someone breaks into my crib I'm fully loaded and trained. I dislike NYs laws on legal gun ownership. Besides our absurd amount of taxes its top of my list of things I wish I could change about NY, along w/ legalizing weed - but I have a card for the legal stuff.

Your semi auto won't help me/you much when you've been choked/knocked unconscious either. W/o being strapped you're just another potential victim. In a perfect world I could carry concealed (as I've previously done for many years) and be equip to handle a situation w/my hands but this is where I'm at.