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    Talking any thoughts about my situation?

    Hello. I am 19 years old and I wanted to tell you my situation.
    I have been feeling restless, very agitated, constantly in tension. I have stupid thoughts and im like beating someone all the time. I don't know what causes this feeling, but it's permanent.
    Emotionally, im with my girlfriend for a month, we get along pretty well. What bothers me though is that I don't fully trust her and that sometimes I feel her distance. I care about her a lot.
    Professionally, I work 8 hours a day. Honestly, I don't like what I do, but it's a job during the summer, until college starts.
    In terms of sports, I go to the gym 3-4 times a week, I train intensely and I am satisfied with the results.
    I keep thinking about making money and taking everything to the extreme.
    Any thought splits it into 4 and I interpret. I don't want to lose my girlfriend because of my nonsense. I think she s too important and I depend too much on her. In February she will go to Italy with the college for 4 months and this worries me.
    I don't necessarily have the best relationship with my family.
    I don't have medication, I take natural plants.
    I drink alcohol occasionally, maybe once a week some beer.
    Less drugs, I rarely smoke.
    It's like it's all about my relationship. That's all I see.
    I don't want to become obsessed or stressful, but I can't channel myself into anything else.
    As hobbies, apart from the gym and listening to music, I don't find myself in anything.

    What can I do to improve my situation?
    A good day to all.
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    You need to visit a psychologist
    Can this relationship be toxic? and this is not love, but dependence. Try to share this with someone you trust. A side view of the situation can help. Talk to your girlfriend. What does she think about it?
    There may be a health problem and you need to pass tests.
    In any case, it is better to discuss this situation with a professional
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    If you like your chick, stay with her. That´s all I can say.

    If you don´t like your work but at least It gives you some money, stay on It until you get into college. You don´t have to be on that job forever.

    If you like gym, still workout. That will mentally and physically help you.


    Take a shower and an haircut (just joking in this part ;D).
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