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    Ex broke NC

    Been a while since I posted on here, probably close to 4 months.

    Brief background.

    My ex was a narcissist, she hit me, she told my sister what we did in bed together. Her dad was an *******. Theres loads more psychotic **** but I just cannot be fukd going into detail, simply put, the sl00t was a psycho.

    Anyways, 8 months ago she dumped me, pretty much on the basis that I never wanted to see her as I ghosted her for 3 weeks due to her disrespectful behaviours. And yes before you say it, she probably monkey branches to a cuck simp who offered more through hypergamy, and rode the c0k carousel... I know.


    Anyways, time goes on, whilst she is most likely sl00ting I'm working on myself, I lose 60lbs, I'm studying for the UKSCA (UK strength and Conditioning) qualification, and starting to get my life in check.

    This last week I had a dream that I ****ed her, dunno why, just did. Anyways, today I pop a story of me studying on my instagram, and (I had blocked her main account) she went to a secondary account which I hadn't blocked but simply unfollowed, and starting viewing my ****. I class this as breaking NC.

    I'm pretty wary of the fact that its quarantine, and usually they hoover narcisstic women anyways to see if they can real you back in. I'm pretty sure shes doing this **** as bait and wants to get me to reach out (which will never happen).

    Anyways guys, what are your thoughts?

    I hope someone who's struggling can take something away from this, stick to NC, even if they dont direct message, they'll always keep tabs on you.

    Side note: NC shouldnt be to get a girl back, but man it feels fukin good to know people are wondering about you after leveling up your life, knowing they fukd up. That ego stroke is goodman


    Stay safe brahs
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    You're making too much of a fuss from this. It's pretty natural to be curious about people you once knew. I'm sometimes watching my old schoolmates profiles. Not cos i miss them or want to contact, just curious what's they up too.

    It may as well mean that she is over you and doesn't see the point in deliberately ignore your existance anymore.
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    I think you are overthinking this and creating scenarios in your mind. You shouldn't read too much into anything and just remind yourself that nothing good will come out of breaking NC. Also, it is you that breaks NC if you choose to ever send a message. You have to take responsibility for your actions.
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    Just in the process of NC, its been 2 weeks, she's not hoovering. I remember very well that each time she did (after smaller conflicts) it boosted my confidence. Until I learned why they discard (sl00ting it up or focusing on previous supplies) and until narcissistic behaviour became worse after every cycle.
    If she's NPD, I recommend Richard Grannon's youtube channel, and some others you will notice on the way.
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    Originally Posted by cantsquat315 View Post
    Just in the process of NC, its been 2 weeks, she's not hoovering. I remember very well that each time she did (after smaller conflicts) it boosted my confidence. Until I learned why they discard (sl00ting it up or focusing on previous supplies) and until narcissistic behaviour became worse after every cycle.
    If she's NPD, I recommend Richard Grannon's youtube channel, and some others you will notice on the way.
    OP- that is far from an ex breaking no contact. Covid-19 has people more bored than ever and she might have just been so bored that she looked to see what a few people from her past were doing, you included. That's why I enjoy having no social media. No drama, no bs, and no ex can ever know what I'm doing. She didn't reach out in any way so she didn't break no contact.

    To Sandman2019's new best friend, 2 weeks isn't **** buddy. My first breakup with my most recent ex took 3 months for her to grovel back. Going on about 5 now after breakup 2. I cut her off in December for cutting pussy off (she did that at the exact same time last year and dumped me a month later so I figured wth and just ended it myself this go around). 3 weeks later right before Christmas she sent a psycho email where she blamed me for it, and harassed me and a friend for 2 months, threatened restraining orders, pretended to have attorney's prosecuting me, having PI's etc etc. Be glad she's gone vs dealing with the **** I had to lol. Also yes if you ever go back to a narcissistic ex it only gets worse. Actually any ex you take back it only gets worse. They always lose respect because they think just because you take them back and want to work on things that they must be your only option and they can just treat you with more disrespect than the last go around and do whatever they want. They completely view themselves as the prize at that point, and you as some chump that all they had to do was snap their fingers and you took them back so you must have no value vs the other options out there.
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    Originally Posted by randomuser12345 View Post
    You're making too much of a fuss from this. It's pretty natural to be curious about people you once knew. I'm sometimes watching my old schoolmates profiles. Not cos i miss them or want to contact, just curious what's they up too.
    This. I check up on people who have deeply hurt me in the past. Mostly because they were mentally unstable people, and I want to make sure they still exist.

    Doesn't mean you have feelings for that person.

    Your next move: block her secondary account.
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    Originally Posted by Imnew1 View Post

    To Sandman2019's new best friend, 2 weeks isn't **** buddy. My first breakup with my most recent ex took 3 months for her to grovel back. Going on about 5 now after breakup 2. I cut her off in December for cutting pussy off (she did that at the exact same time last year and dumped me a month later so I figured wth and just ended it myself this go around). 3 weeks later right before Christmas she sent a psycho email where she blamed me for it, and harassed me and a friend for 2 months, threatened restraining orders, pretended to have attorney's prosecuting me, having PI's etc etc. Be glad she's gone vs dealing with the **** I had to lol. Also yes if you ever go back to a narcissistic ex it only gets worse. Actually any ex you take back it only gets worse. They always lose respect because they think just because you take them back and want to work on things that they must be your only option and they can just treat you with more disrespect than the last go around and do whatever they want. They completely view themselves as the prize at that point, and you as some chump that all they had to do was snap their fingers and you took them back so you must have no value vs the other options out there.

    Time will tell.

    If they find better supply, or they bring back someone they dim better than you, then they won't be coming back.

    I won't be the one to break NC ever, but I'm afraid if she ever hoovers back I will give into it. By then I will have my gains back, probably PR beyond my old numbers, and rebuild confidence. It used to be a chase, out of spite, she came back, my adrenaline skyrocketed, and I wanted to demonstrate that my value increased, but then she always found a way to broke me down further. I was at my worst during quarantine because I lost all my gains+performance, got injured, and consequently lost mental fortitude. At that point she was stabbing harder. The only compliment she ever gave me is "you have multiple talents", but when devaluing basically told me that I'm not fit for my sport just to attack my confidence again (and she doesn't know jack **** about it, probably never knew snatch and C&J existed before). She is always hyperactive, seeking high stimulus, gets bored easily with whatever she found interesting, and you can't be all that, all the time.
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