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    Whats my next step?

    Here my story.

    I dated a girl for 7 months. Things were going good. Unfortunately I was unemployed, didn't have much going on besides her and she got smothered. A month before we broke up, she offered me a job at her company. She became my boss.
    6 months in the relationship I was at her place 5 to 6 times a week with her cooking, cleaning, etc on top of that spending a lot of time together at work. I live with a roomate. So our relationship was around her house.
    Eventually with her smothered, telling me so.. She started to pull back. Her pulling back started one week after I started working for her. She spent 1,5 weeks distant, only sex twice a week. We sit down and spoke. We agreed to make things right. So after the talk in the next day, she spent the day sending me love msgs, kisses etc, in the night we had romantic dinner home, cuddling but she didn't want to have sex. I freaked out shouted with her and pushed her, the bed was behind her and she fell on it. I went on top of her as a joke for some make up angry sex and tried to rip her panties off. She took this very wrong and was really mad saying that I was attacking her and kicked me out of the house. She asked me space to think. Because we worked together I couldn't give any space and 5 days later I showed up at her place unannounced to talk, rang the bell like 10 times. She finally came outside mad, gave me all my clothes and broke up with me on the spot right there. I begged and chased for a month and she blocked me everywhere even on her daughter's phone.

    One month later of no contact. She unblocked me and reached out. My son was spending Christmas with me (he lives with his mother in another country) and she asked if she could pick him up to spend a night at her place because her daughter and my son her friends. We exchange a few texts, she came to pick the kid and dropped him off. All went well. I asked her for coffee she said no. I didnt see her in this instance, my other ex was at my place (my kid's mom) and handled the exchange with her. I went no contact again.

    3 weeks later, she sent me a random msg. Again I asked her for drinks she said no. I ended up arguing with her by text and blowing up her phone, she told me to stop it. I went back to no contact.

    2 weeks later she reached out again (again my son was visiting me) asking to pick up the kid. This time I dropped him off at her place per her request. I went over to her doorstep with my son. Her daughter opened the door. My ex didn't want to come to say hi, was hidden in the toilet. I called her from the outside of the house asked if she wanted to come out to say hi, she said "no need".

    We exchanged a few cordial msgs, but then we started arguing. I insulted her saying lots of nasty stuff. She showed up at my doorstep unannounced to bring a couple of things my son had left at her place, I opened the door (I hadn't seen her in 3 months), she looked me in the eye and said "I'm done, you send me all these messages threating me, I'm done... You make me sick, I despise you, I never want anything to do with you, you are still the same unstable guy unsafe guy. She got in the car and left. She blocked me again and told me she is seeing someone and wants nothing to do with me ever again.

    We have been broken up for 7,5 months now.

    My situation now is, I got a job, a car, back to gym, I got my own place and my son is moving to live with me and start school etc.

    Even though I'm now blocked, she will eventually reach out sooner or later asking permission to pick up my kid (my kid is now abroad for a few months, he will be back in August) now and then for playdates especially when he moves here next summer.

    I'm in no contact for 3,5 months now.

    How to proceed from here?
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