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    Where to take a girl for lunch?

    I've been talking to a girl on Hinge and I asked her if she'd like to catch up for lunch and she said she'd love to.

    Right, so where do I take her? We live close to each other. Do I have to pick the place? I can't leave it for her to decide because no girl ever wants to know where to go.

    We live about 15 minutes from each other so should I pick somewhere closer to her or somewhere closer to me?

    Also we went to neighbouring high schools so we have a lot of people in common. Do I talk about all the people we'd know in common?
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    pick somewhere near to your place if you intend to smash after. but if it's only 15min distance it doesn't really matter

    and yeah why not talk about people you know. breaks the ice
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    It is your first time seeing the girl live? Why lunch then? The weather is nice, so walk in the park or coffee is much cheaper and better option in the long run for the first date.
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    Originally Posted by LeanDude84 View Post
    It is your first time seeing the girl live? Why lunch then? The weather is nice, so walk in the park or coffee is much cheaper and better option in the long run for the first date.
    Im in Australia and we’re about to enter winter
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    Change these plans asap. Lunch is what you do with your long term girfriend or your friends. Not somebody that you’re wanting to get sexual with for the first time. Change it to drinks in the evening and see how it goes. Order some food if it’s going well. Get out cheap if you two don’t vibe.
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    I’ll just say “most places are only allowing limited numbers inside so do want to just go for coffee and a walk on the beach or something?”
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    Ok so I had a date set for tomorrow, but I’ve unexpectedly been called into work. I’ve given her alternative dates of Saturday or Sunday.

    Hopefully she’s not too put off by me cancelling.
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    Originally Posted by Monsoon178 View Post
    Ok so I had a date set for tomorrow, but I’ve unexpectedly been called into work. I’ve given her alternative dates of Saturday or Sunday.

    Hopefully she’s not too put off by me cancelling.
    too many things up in the air

    nail a time and place and send it to her. be direct. hey i got called into work so let's do saturday at xyz pm at this place

    suggestion for day dates - find the nearest winery and go for that. i'm not saying get drunk either. it is a fun experience and feels like a date vs sitting at the table for lunch like two buddies would. couple glasses of wine each, or a tasting, and some cheese/crackers is way better than sitting down formally and eating sandwiches or something. too soon for that.
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    picnic, keep it simple. Fruits, cheeses, fresh bread, maybe some meat, chocolates, sparkling water. Just a spread to snack on. Then talk
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    Originally Posted by Imnew1 View Post
    Change these plans asap. Lunch is what you do with your long term girfriend or your friends. Not somebody that you’re wanting to get sexual with for the first time. Change it to drinks in the evening and see how it goes. Order some food if it’s going well. Get out cheap if you two don’t vibe.
    Rollo Tomassi talks about it elaborately in one of his recent podcasts. There are multiple reasons why you don't go out to eat with someone you intend to bang, both psychological and physiological. But no need to get that deep, just value yourself and your time, cut your losses and bail early if there's no prospect of sex. I've tons of other things I'd rather be doing than listen to her stories about "self-discovery" trip to Bali while I know all she did there was binge drink and bang Chad.
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