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    Question How to remove emotions from dating?

    I feel I get attached too much and too quickly, girl I only went on 2 freaking dates i caught feelings for, cuz we texted all day everyday for 2 weeks, shes rejected my valentines day date and probably with another guy right now.
    How do I not get affected by these sloots? I like dating but want to remove my emotions and not feel anything until they are worthy anyways?
    Any tips?? I wanna be a heartless guy I feel I get too emotional and catch feelings for sloots who don't deserve me.
    Or atleast not feel emotional until a few months into dating where I see the girl is worthy of my heart.
    Even my ex who I dated a few months that hurt losing her too, it's just I catch feelings and get emotional involved too quickly.
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    Originally Posted by DanSDA View Post
    I feel I get attached too much and too quickly, girl I only went on 2 freaking dates i caught feelings for, cuz we texted all day everyday for 2 weeks, shes rejected my valentines day date and probably with another guy right now.
    How do I not get affected by these sloots? I like dating but want to remove my emotions and not feel anything until they are worthy anyways?
    Any tips?? I wanna be a heartless guy I feel I get too emotional and catch feelings for sloots who don't deserve me.
    Or atleast not feel emotional until a few months into dating where I see the girl is worthy of my heart.
    Even my ex who I dated a few months that hurt losing her too, it's just I catch feelings and get emotional involved too quickly.
    It’s normal to feel like this or be excited about someone new... perhaps you need to set a boundary or a trial period with people. For example... 3 dates before you make any decisions or put too much effort into it.

    If you meet someone and latch onto them quickly it could scare them off.

    Just try and look at dating a little more casually.
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    Sounds like you only had one option and focused on it too hard.

    Been there, done that.

    Please dont text so dam much and dont always be available
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    It’s normal to feel like this or be excited about someone new... perhaps you need to set a boundary or a trial period with people. For example... 3 dates before you make any decisions or put too much effort into it.

    If you meet someone and latch onto them quickly it could scare them off.

    Just try and look at dating a little more casually.
    I dont latch on that quick I dont think, like I dont call them constantly, or double triple text.. I take my time to reply to their texts etc. Sometimes I say romantic chit but I'm a romantic guy so i suppose I'll stop that with new women I'm dating.
    I dont mean i want to feel nothing, it's more that I want to protect my heart until a few months into dating a woman to not get hurt.
    Catch feelings too quick? Or is that normal? Few weeks in.
    Also any tips on when you say latch onto them too fast? How do I not do that? If I like the girl?
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    Originally Posted by redliner9 View Post
    Sounds like you only had one option and focused on it too hard.

    Been there, done that.

    Please dont text so dam much and dont always be available
    I really dont, I take my time to reply to her texts and dont bombard her with texts. Just that after my ex that was the first girl I connected with emotionally and she enjoyed my jokes and all that so I caught feels.
    Also it feels kinda bad texting multiple women like you are right I text 1 at a time, never really multiple ones..
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    Do you have many hobbies/a busy social life?

    You just have to not make dating the center of your universe, understand that the women you date are easily replaceable, and get to the point where you feel as though it's relatively easy to get laid without much work thus not putting in too much time/effort (can come off as clingy) just to get some.
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    And i can't feel a thing. To each his own i guess.
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    Originally Posted by randomuser12345 View Post
    And i can't feel a thing. To each his own i guess.

    For me if a woman does some ****ery or something like that, I lose interest quickly.
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    Dude.. I'm exactly like u.. jesus
    It hurts af when u got dem feels faster than the girl.. and you know for sure that you are just another option for her. I mean, we can be the "cute" option, even the "best" option, but they always got a better option on hold. Even if thos option wont give a fxk about them, they will still want to fck them without any regrets.

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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    Do you have many hobbies/a busy social life?

    You just have to not make dating the center of your universe, understand that the women you date are easily replaceable, and get to the point where you feel as though it's relatively easy to get laid without much work thus not putting in too much time/effort (can come off as clingy) just to get some.
    This is real good advice repped brah, you are right I dont have many friends or hobbies all I do is gym and come back home and studying lol. I have friends but I hardly see them, spend most of the day at home or at the library studying. I suppose me having hobbies and a good social life I wouldn't be as attached/more options.
    I'll try improve my social life but I'm graduating college in 2 months so concentrating on finding a job in engineering for the time being.
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    Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91 View Post
    Get more options and stay busy.
    Makes sense thanks! Repped
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    You just gotta make yourself available for even more girls to come along. Girls have nearly fuking infinite + options so the only balance is for you to rotate as many girls as you can until you meet the right one
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    Originally Posted by DanSDA View Post
    cuz we texted all day everyday for 2 weeks
    Stop doing that. Have your own hobbies and keep yourself busy, texting a new chick nonstop kills conversation and romance - you're only harming your progress by doing this and it makes you look too available in her eyes. You don't have to be 'heartless', but you also don't have to invest everything in a chick you barely know.
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    Originally Posted by FU3L View Post
    Stop doing that. Have your own hobbies and keep yourself busy, texting a new chick nonstop kills conversation and romance - you're only harming your progress by doing this and it makes you look too available in her eyes. You don't have to be 'heartless', but you also don't have to invest everything in a chick you barely know.
    She replies to me aswell so do I just leave her message without answering for a couple of hours?
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    Originally Posted by EliasEmmanuel View Post
    You just gotta make yourself available for even more girls to come along. Girls have nearly fuking infinite + options so the only balance is for you to rotate as many girls as you can until you meet the right one
    Idk if I could do this, I'm a one woman type of guy I know what you are saying but I'm not really a player and usually just bond with 1 woman at a time until that blows off then I find another.
    Feels douchy af flirting with multiple woman in my mind.
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    Originally Posted by DanSDA View Post
    Idk if I could do this, I'm a one woman type of guy I know what you are saying but I'm not really a player and usually just bond with 1 woman at a time until that blows off then I find another.
    Feels douchy af flirting with multiple woman in my mind.
    I used to do this as well. It could be a fine approach but it doesn't rlly matter if you're dealing with a bish. Bishes will next you on god speed. And most females I seem to be meeting are bishes. So your chances of finding someone are increased on the numbers game. Of course you ain't rlly doing any harm as long as you don't lay all of them
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    Originally Posted by DanSDA View Post
    Idk if I could do this, I'm a one woman type of guy I know what you are saying but I'm not really a player and usually just bond with 1 woman at a time until that blows off then I find another.
    Feels douchy af flirting with multiple woman in my mind.

    No offense but you're gonna fail because of this.
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