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    Missed oppurtunites suck

    I've been "crushing" (I wouldn't call that but it gets the point across) about this girl at the gym for the past few months. She's one of those that always wear a hat and earphones, never smiles or laughs, doesn't waste time doing nothing, rarely if ever talks to someone and knows what she's doing in her workouts. That's why I couldn't approach her, she looks like she doesn't want to be bothered.

    Today I was going to the squad rack when I noticed she was working out close by. I did what I always do, stare and try not to get caught... A little bit later. She asked me about if a pair of gloves, which somone forgot, they were mine. It surprised me since it was clear (at least to me) that they weren't mine (hell I was squatting...). Me being the huge pus I am I didn't use that oppurtunity to start up a conversation. Few minutes ago I needed a spotter and she was the only person in that whole area so I asked her. She came to spot me but I didn't even need her anyways so she literally just stood behind me while I was squatting (I struggles with that weight for 3 reps last week, somehow her being behind me made it 10* lighter).

    Anyways, I tried to make a stupid joke about the gloves, but she didn't even understand it then we both left to different mashines. 15 minutes later we were working in the same area, she was squatting and I was leg pressing. This loud guy comes and asks to work out with her while there is 3 emepty racks in front of him. He starts "motivating" her while she was squatting and he just glued to her talking. And it did work, she was giggling and laughing and they finished the workout together while I finished it watching them between sets and biting my lips.

    I need to know one thing, if I did what he did would've it worked for me too? and should I go start up a conversation next time I see her?
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    No experience in this scenario but I'd just try to catch her at the water fountain or after her workout and be direct rather than spending time and effort during your workouts building rapport with her.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    No experience in this scenario but I'd just try to catch her at the water fountain or after her workout and be direct rather than spending time and effort during your workouts building rapport with her.
    But do you think I should still give it a shot? I do agree with you about not getting distracted during workouts
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    You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

    But if you need to come to an internet forum to ask strangers if you should take the shot, there's a good chance you're not gonna score regardless.
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    You have already talked to each other. So say hello next time. Small talk is ok. So you can see her reaction. Be friendly. People who just stare constantly are creepy. It is better to say something and be friendly.
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    damn those extraverted people. They are bane of my life!
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