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    Thumbs down Obsession with ex girlfriend - being alone, broken ego..

    Brahs i know i've made multiple threads about this and gotten some really good answers and responses but despite seeing a psychologist, listening to the misc advice and so on and so forth, I still cannot move on.

    My ego feels permanently damaged. I realise now that i don't want my ex back so much but it's more an ego thing.


    So this is pretty much what happened.

    - OP is a good looking highly insecure ,low self esteem, narcissistic loner and never had a girlfriend or close relationship with a girl.
    - Met a girl off tinder
    - Started dating and going out [never had a gf before]
    - HUGE RED FLAGS - Her instagram was full of raunchy pictures, i knew from early on she had a big slay count, she is uneducated (low inhibition), works as a waitress (25 years old), abusive ex boyfriend who looked like a criminal, crazy sex etc.

    In the early stages of the relationship, I sat back because i didn't really like her and knew she was a sloot. So i thought 'ill let her do all the work' and she did - she would be the one picking up on for dates, organising things etc. I pretty much did nothing, always sat back and let her lead. Anyway this girl was SUPER affectionate. She would shower me with love - bake me cookies, buy me cologne, cuddles, affection, always asked what i was upto , always complimented me, would pay for me and so on. As someone who has low self esteem/insecurities i started developing strong feelings for her and a strong attachment. Moreover, her loving and caring nature, made me replicate it and I started actually caring for her/falling in love.

    This lasted for a bout 7 months before she broke up with me citing her feelings changed, she then wanted to get back together (which i stupidly agreed) so we started banging/hanging out again while she was sleeping with other dudes (guys were messaging her off insta to come over to their house and she was). When i found out i blew up at her and she blocked me on everything. I later apologised for this (regret doing this for this sloot)


    Anyway it's been such a long time since we broke up yet still, to this day i still think about it. I actually saw her for the first time at the Gym and realised she was just a girl and wasn't even that special. We made small talk and that was it.


    But i still, get annoyed and angry thinking about it for soo many reasons. I know there are other sloots out there and the way she broke up with me was bad and she is a huge sloot and yada yada but it just annoys me and i still obsess about it.

    1) I can't forgive myself for being such a huge beta when i was with her.
    2) I can't get over how i was talking to her etc when we had 'gotten back together' while alpha chads simply message her off instagram to come to their house to bang. Makes me ****ing sick.
    3) I've been with other girls but i just dont get the same feeling as when i did when i was with her?
    4) I feel like i wasted such a great chance. This girl was down for anything in bed yet i didn't really care, i was happy with just normal stuff. Now in hindsight i regret it so much.
    5) The way she just disgarded me like i was nothing and slept with tall alpha chads off Instagram makes me feel like such a beta piece of ****. Was i not good enough? Not manly enough etc?
    6) Now i continually question my self when i'm with girls. I continually think i'm not good enough for girls i'm not strong or masculine enough for them (don't know how to act) - My dad is extremely weak male so i don't really know how to act.



    What am i Supposed to do? No matter how many times i distract myelf or focus on other girls ,or bang other girls i'll never be good enough for her. I couldn't dominate a sloot. I wasn't strong alpha male. Just like my dad who gets bossed around by my mum.
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    Cliffs son! Ain’t nobody gonna read that Great Wall of Text!

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    Originally Posted by AgumbaIgbo View Post
    Cliffs son! Ain’t nobody gonna read that Great Wall of Text!

    Also, brb restarting PC. Pics won’t load!
    This.

    Also stop being a phaggot. Your ex is gone and getting railed by chad and tyrone. What good is staying obsessed?
    Move on boyo.
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    Brahs i know i've made multiple threads about this and gotten some really good answers and responses but despite seeing a psychologist, listening to the misc advice and so on and so forth, I still cannot move on.

    My ego feels permanently damaged. I realise now that i don't want my ex back so much but it's more an ego thing.


    So this is pretty much what happened.

    - OP is a good looking highly insecure ,low self esteem, narcissistic loner and never had a girlfriend or close relationship with a girl.
    - Met a girl off tinder
    - Started dating and going out [never had a gf before]
    - HUGE RED FLAGS - Her instagram was full of raunchy pictures, i knew from early on she had a big slay count, she is uneducated (low inhibition), works as a waitress (25 years old), abusive ex boyfriend who looked like a criminal, crazy sex etc.

    In the early stages of the relationship, I sat back because i didn't really like her and knew she was a sloot. So i thought 'ill let her do all the work' and she did - she would be the one picking up on for dates, organising things etc. I pretty much did nothing, always sat back and let her lead. Anyway this girl was SUPER affectionate. She would shower me with love - bake me cookies, buy me cologne, cuddles, affection, always asked what i was upto , always complimented me, would pay for me and so on. As someone who has low self esteem/insecurities i started developing strong feelings for her and a strong attachment. Moreover, her loving and caring nature, made me replicate it and I started actually caring for her/falling in love.

    This lasted for a bout 7 months before she broke up with me citing her feelings changed, she then wanted to get back together (which i stupidly agreed) so we started banging/hanging out again while she was sleeping with other dudes (guys were messaging her off insta to come over to their house and she was). When i found out i blew up at her and she blocked me on everything. I later apologised for this (regret doing this for this sloot)


    Anyway it's been such a long time since we broke up yet still, to this day i still think about it. I actually saw her for the first time at the Gym and realised she was just a girl and wasn't even that special. We made small talk and that was it.


    But i still, get annoyed and angry thinking about it for soo many reasons. I know there are other sloots out there and the way she broke up with me was bad and she is a huge sloot and yada yada but it just annoys me and i still obsess about it.

    1) I can't forgive myself for being such a huge beta when i was with her.
    2) I can't get over how i was talking to her etc when we had 'gotten back together' while alpha chads simply message her off instagram to come to their house to bang. Makes me ****ing sick.
    3) I've been with other girls but i just dont get the same feeling as when i did when i was with her?
    4) I feel like i wasted such a great chance. This girl was down for anything in bed yet i didn't really care, i was happy with just normal stuff. Now in hindsight i regret it so much.
    5) The way she just disgarded me like i was nothing and slept with tall alpha chads off Instagram makes me feel like such a beta piece of ****. Was i not good enough? Not manly enough etc?
    6) Now i continually question my self when i'm with girls. I continually think i'm not good enough for girls i'm not strong or masculine enough for them (don't know how to act) - My dad is extremely weak male so i don't really know how to act.



    What am i Supposed to do? No matter how many times i distract myelf or focus on other girls ,or bang other girls i'll never be good enough for her. I couldn't dominate a sloot. I wasn't strong alpha male. Just like my dad who gets bossed around by my mum.
    These comments are ****ing gold lmao. Anyways, you weren't a beta. You said she would do everything for you and y'all would get to bang. You were man enough to keep her on your needs specifically. She was a sloot. She goes on with any kind of guy so I don't know why you're having such a headache in understanding that

    I'm acting real beta with a girl I'm about to go out to the movies as we speak. Girls think beta is cute man. Sex isn't everything and realistically speaking being an alpha chad isn't always enough to bed a girl whom isn't 100% damaged goods. Which unlucky for you seem to have been your case
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    Just a thought:

    She leave any of her old pants around? Snorting them every so often can ease the pain a little.
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    In your mind her opinion means something. She is a disgusting, degenerate whore, a pathetic, feeble-minded, worthless piece of human garbage. Once you understand that you can move on.

    You obviously have some issues to overcome, but this girl is a worthless piece of trash. Don't be fooled by your eyes and your dick. She is complete garbage, a product of today's completely fukked society. Hopefully one day you'll be embarrassed that you cared what she thought at all, instead of regretting how you acted with her.

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    man I was in this same situation with my ex gf, was shattered for like 4-5 months then met another girl and that new girl was a distraction and made a new girlfriend. well that relationship has ended too but It just proved to me in my mind theres multiple girls you will connect with in your lifetime so don't lose hope you will find another.
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    Originally Posted by backinthegymbro View Post
    This.

    Also stop being a phaggot. Your ex is gone and getting railed by chad and tyrone. What good is staying obsessed?
    Move on boyo.
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    Originally Posted by PrepaidExpress View Post
    Brahs i know i've made multiple threads about this and gotten some really good answers and responses but despite seeing a psychologist, listening to the misc advice and so on and so forth, I still cannot move on.

    My ego feels permanently damaged. I realise now that i don't want my ex back so much but it's more an ego thing.


    So this is pretty much what happened.

    - OP is a good looking highly insecure ,low self esteem, narcissistic loner and never had a girlfriend or close relationship with a girl.
    - Met a girl off tinder
    - Started dating and going out [never had a gf before]
    - HUGE RED FLAGS - Her instagram was full of raunchy pictures, i knew from early on she had a big slay count, she is uneducated (low inhibition), works as a waitress (25 years old), abusive ex boyfriend who looked like a criminal, crazy sex etc.

    In the early stages of the relationship, I sat back because i didn't really like her and knew she was a sloot. So i thought 'ill let her do all the work' and she did - she would be the one picking up on for dates, organising things etc. I pretty much did nothing, always sat back and let her lead. Anyway this girl was SUPER affectionate. She would shower me with love - bake me cookies, buy me cologne, cuddles, affection, always asked what i was upto , always complimented me, would pay for me and so on. As someone who has low self esteem/insecurities i started developing strong feelings for her and a strong attachment. Moreover, her loving and caring nature, made me replicate it and I started actually caring for her/falling in love.

    This lasted for a bout 7 months before she broke up with me citing her feelings changed, she then wanted to get back together (which i stupidly agreed) so we started banging/hanging out again while she was sleeping with other dudes (guys were messaging her off insta to come over to their house and she was). When i found out i blew up at her and she blocked me on everything. I later apologised for this (regret doing this for this sloot)


    Anyway it's been such a long time since we broke up yet still, to this day i still think about it. I actually saw her for the first time at the Gym and realised she was just a girl and wasn't even that special. We made small talk and that was it.


    But i still, get annoyed and angry thinking about it for soo many reasons. I know there are other sloots out there and the way she broke up with me was bad and she is a huge sloot and yada yada but it just annoys me and i still obsess about it.

    1) I can't forgive myself for being such a huge beta when i was with her.
    2) I can't get over how i was talking to her etc when we had 'gotten back together' while alpha chads simply message her off instagram to come to their house to bang. Makes me ****ing sick.
    3) I've been with other girls but i just dont get the same feeling as when i did when i was with her?
    4) I feel like i wasted such a great chance. This girl was down for anything in bed yet i didn't really care, i was happy with just normal stuff. Now in hindsight i regret it so much.
    5) The way she just disgarded me like i was nothing and slept with tall alpha chads off Instagram makes me feel like such a beta piece of ****. Was i not good enough? Not manly enough etc?
    6) Now i continually question my self when i'm with girls. I continually think i'm not good enough for girls i'm not strong or masculine enough for them (don't know how to act) - My dad is extremely weak male so i don't really know how to act.



    What am i Supposed to do? No matter how many times i distract myelf or focus on other girls ,or bang other girls i'll never be good enough for her. I couldn't dominate a sloot. I wasn't strong alpha male. Just like my dad who gets bossed around by my mum.

    Hey mate, first of all you have some confidence issues. You are looking to find your happiness in other people and depending on women to make you feel complete. This will never happen you have to be happy within yourself first.

    You say in your first paragraph, that you didn’t really like her much. That was at the start of the affair, usually that’s the “honeymoon” phase where you are head over heels for the person, so to notice that you just aren’t into them much that early on is a red flag.

    The only reason you’re fantasying over her is because, you’re insecure and you haven’t found anyone you truly like yet.

    Who cares what’s she’s up to, she’s obviously a woman who likes attention from multiple men, is that someone you could see yourself living with? Being with? If no, then why worry about it?

    Don’t text her anymore, don’t reach out don’t apologise. If she comes back and reaches out, and you feel like it, just be FWB (safe sex). Invite her round to your house to hang out. I wouldn’t suggest taking anything serious on with her as she doesn’t seem at the maturity level to be in a relationship yet.

    But like I said at the start man, you need to be happy within yourself.

    No woman is going to complete you, they will make you happy for a few months but then you will realise you’re still unhappy within yourself.

    You say yourself that you’re a good looking chap. If so, show that confidence in your body language. You can be a 6/10 and if you show confidence you can still attract some 10/10 women.

    Walk around with your shoulders back, chest out and hold your head high, make eye contact with women as you pass by each other and give them a cheeky smile, do this from now on out. This will massively increase your confidence.

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