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    Almost escalated with a girl with a boyfriend but got rejected what now?

    To keep it as short as possible there was this girl i met a while ago and she was obsessed with me (I know because of my sister that was best friends with her bestfriend/family)(I met her at my sisters best friend house and she tried setting up days where i would come without me knowing, basically changing profile picture so i don't see the boyfriend etc) We hanged out a few times and she really liked me. but after that she was abit flakey.

    But after ignoring her for a while she wanted to hang out with me so i invited her over to my place and she came, we had some wine laughed all that good ****. But when i tried to kiss her she kissed for abit but then rejected it saying ''feels so wrong i'm in a relationship of 4 years''

    Later when i drived her home i told her ''I respect you and do what feels right to you, but i'm not going to wait on the waiting list. I don't want to waste my time'' and she said i don't know, i really like you too blabla

    And after i left she texted me 10 minutes later ''i really had fun let's meet again before you go (i will go on vacation in 6 day)' So she basically turned from flakey to wanting to see me and texting me more but then sudenly left me on read when i said ''Same time as (this date)?

    What would you guys do in this situation? I'm pretty lost. Should i try to escalate again when i see her or ignore her. obviously i have oneitis so i can't think rational right know what do you guys think?

    (And i know the boyfriend total loser and ******* don't even try to defend) Thanks guys!
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    well, besides the fact that I think you're a phaggot for macking on some dude's girl (even though she's the cheating ****) my advice is simple:


    String her along in a way that keeps her interested. Don't be so quick to respond or make plans. Be short with her when texting her. Understand girls emotions fluctuate really quickly so one moment she might want you, but the next, she'll forget all about you. Responding quick kills their interest especially if you do it a lot. By ignoring them, it kind of drives them crazier for you and makes their mind wonder about you (this really only applies if they were interested in you from the beginning). People want what, "they can't have".

    After being short with her and ignoring her, hit her with that meetup text (like this ****):"Hey, there's this cool ancient zombie show I heard about on Netflix that seems interesting. It's called Kingdom. Come over tonight @ 9 and let's watch it."

    Don't make her feel guilty or think about her boyfriend when making a move. Slowly build up the tension/slowly escalate each move.
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    I'd just tell her if things don't work out with her boyfriend to give you a call and leave it at that. There isn't a reason to get caught up in this bullchit.
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    I'll put the ball in her court and leave her alone. If she wants to do something, she can hit me up but if she's conflicted cause she's in a relationship then I just keep on pushing cause I don't want my time wasted and deal with drama.

    Also if it's a guy I respect and/or crazy then I wouldn't even bother in the first place cause there are plenty of single women out there.
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    What now? Stop being a scumbag trying to hit on chicks in relationships.
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    Originally Posted by billclintonnn View Post
    I'd just tell her if things don't work out with her boyfriend to give you a call and leave it at that. There isn't a reason to get caught up in this bullchit.
    this 100%

    but also don't wait around for the relationship to go tits up. secure your own bag homie
    "So there I am sitting in the waiting area of the hair salon with my niece and Keanu Reeves walks in. I was nervous as ****, but too scared to say anything to him. Then my niece started crying, and I’m trying to quiet her down because I don't want to bother him. Pretty soon he walks over and asks what's wrong. I replied that she was probably hungry. He put down his magazine, picked up my niece, and lifted up his shirt, and breastfed her right there in the salon. Chill guy, really nice about it."
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    What would I do?

    1) Nothing
    2) learn how to spell and use grammar correctly (yes, I am the police)
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    she didnt respond because she was with her boyfriend. she'll respond when he's gone. stop over thinking it, just mind your business and answer texts as they come. but really, look for someone not in a relationship
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