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    What are the chances of her liking me?

    Hi, I am a 23 year old male who has started attending church mostly to find a community that I can belong to. I have had issues with depression and social anxiety in the past so I thought a church will be a great place to put myself out there (which it is!). These are the reasons why I think she likes me.
    1. She always gives hugs.
    I awkwardly broke the hug barrier because I saw her greeting my friend with a hug so I just went a long with it. Every time I see her she gives me a hug now. I was sitting and facing the opposite direction last week and she hugged me from behind.
    2. She makes a point and asks what I do on the weekend etc.
    She starts the conversation and keeps it going by asking follow up questions. She even remembers what I told her a few weeks ago and what my plans are for next year in terms of my working situation etc.
    3. She invited me to her birthday party.
    My group has a whatsapp and she got my number and texted me (not using whatsapp) if I have a Facebook so she can add me to an event.
    4. When I was leaving, she asked me if I was coming to the event in the following week.
    5. I strongly believe that she attends church because she wants to meet guys. She doesn’t have a lot of guy friends judging from her Facebook event. The guys that were invited is the ones in my group.
    6. On the weekend, my group and I were sitting and she sat next to me. I was listening into another conversation on my other side (not contributing anything to this conversation) and could see with the corner of my eye her looking over my way. I believe she wanted me to initiate a conversation with her. In the end she started the conversation.

    And these are the reasons why I think she doesn’t:
    1. I think she hugs a lot of guys though. Not 100% though.
    2. I was texting her last week just about how’s her day etc and she didn’t seem to keep the conversation going.

    What do you think?

    Thanks!
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    My quick thoughts is she got bored as you never asked her out. She gave you solid signals she was interested. You have zero to lose by asking her on a date.

    There is a chance this is her way of being. Welcoming you into the church.

    But F that ask her out bro.
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    My quick thoughts is she got bored as you never asked her out. She gave you solid signals she was interested. You have zero to lose by asking her on a date.

    There is a chance this is her way of being. Welcoming you into the church.

    But F that ask her out bro.
    Thanks for the reply! So you think she is interested?
    All the steps I listed happened in the space of a month or so.
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    You will never know from the misc. Ask her out before she gives it to an altar boy, phaggot!
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    You might as well make your effort to know her better, ask what she likes, how she views life, what's her vision for the future (and I don't mean just jobs, does she want to be happy and have a family? Does she want to contribute something to the world and ecetera?). I'm assuming you two barely know one another, so for your sake and her, know each other before you make a decision to go for it. (By going for it, it is ultimately asking her out on a date.)
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    Be direct and ask her out then. Then you know your answer.
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    Originally Posted by FowardRLL View Post
    You might as well make your effort to know her better, ask what she likes, how she views life, what's her vision for the future (and I don't mean just jobs, does she want to be happy and have a family? Does she want to contribute something to the world and ecetera?). I'm assuming you two barely know one another, so for your sake and her, know each other before you make a decision to go for it. (By going for it, it is ultimately asking her out on a date.)
    Thanks for the reply!

    Yes I was thinking of getting to know her better before taking the next move.
    I just need to somehow get past the ‘how’s your weekend’ type of questions.
    But based on my original post, do you think she likes me?
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    Originally Posted by rickyy1996 View Post
    Thanks for the reply!

    Yes I was thinking of getting to know her better before taking the next move.
    I just need to somehow get past the ‘how’s your weekend’ type of questions.
    But based on my original post, do you think she likes me?
    Look man... yes, she likes you but there is only one way to determine if there is something special or she is one of those weird church girls so brainwashed about love and god, etc that she doesn't even know what she is doing.
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    Then do not complain if you get friendzoned.
    Take her out and get physical son...
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    Originally Posted by Natty1980 View Post
    Then do not complain if you get friendzoned.
    Take her out and get physical son...
    Some of these church girls get off on the butterfly feelings from the crushes they have but that’s as far as it goes. Partly because they have hormones but unable to act on them so why comes out is how young school girls act in a playground.

    Just ask her out.
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    Look man... yes, she likes you but there is only one way to determine if there is something special or she is one of those weird church girls so brainwashed about love and god, etc that she doesn't even know what she is doing.
    I have heard that her parents do not like her going to church, so I believe that she is not from a religious family and only comes for the same reason as me.
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    LOL @ going to the church to get girls.
    There are better places, bro... clubs, beaches, even gyms.
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    Originally Posted by Natty1980 View Post
    LOL @ going to the church to get girls.
    There are better places, bro... clubs, beaches, even gyms.
    This.

    I know there are a few women at the young adults group at my church that may like me but I don't go there specifically to get laid cause a lot of them are sexually duplicitous and ain't gonna act on their feelings for you unless it's through the context of a serious relationship and even then still doesn't guarantee they ain't gonna use you or exploit you if you're a gullible beta male.

    Stores should be added to that list too along with libraries and if you know what you're doing, bars and just about anywhere where there's women.
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    Originally Posted by Natty1980 View Post
    LOL @ going to the church to get girls.
    There are better places, bro... clubs, beaches, even gyms.
    I don’t go to church to get girls. I started going because I needed to join a community and meeting new people in doing that. Obviously if there was a male only church I wouldn’t go but meeting girls was just a bonus.
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    Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91 View Post
    This.

    I know there are a few women at the young adults group at my church that may like me but I don't go there specifically to get laid cause a lot of them are sexually duplicitous and ain't gonna act on their feelings for you unless it's through the context of a serious relationship and even then still doesn't guarantee they ain't gonna use you or exploit you if you're a gullible beta male.

    Stores should be added to that list too along with libraries and if you know what you're doing, bars and just about anywhere where there's women.
    The girl I am interested in, has only just started going. So I don’t think she is religious at all really. I think she goes for the social aspect of it.
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    So my group went out last night. She invited me to sit next to her (or sit up the end with people I didn’t know), so I sat next to her.
    Another sign she is interested or just didn’t want me to be with the others???

    Also, we were talking and making small talk and saying what she’s doing on the weekend etc.
    I am going to follow up and say how did it go etc when I see her next to show that I am interested and was listening.
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    Originally Posted by rickyy1996 View Post
    So my group went out last night. She invited me to sit next to her (or sit up the end with people I didn’t know), so I sat next to her.
    Another sign she is interested or just didn’t want me to be with the others???

    Also, we were talking and making small talk and saying what she’s doing on the weekend etc.
    I am going to follow up and say how did it go etc when I see her next to show that I am interested and was listening.
    Look buddy, you keep coming on here to ask if she likes you. What sign are you waiting for?

    You either ask her out or you just become her friend which is what you’re doing a good job of right now. This seems a little high school “does she like me?” for someone who’s 23.

    Just stop tormenting yourself and ask her out.
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    Originally Posted by rickyy1996 View Post
    So my group went out last night. She invited me to sit next to her (or sit up the end with people I didn’t know), so I sat next to her.
    Another sign she is interested or just didn’t want me to be with the others???

    Also, we were talking and making small talk and saying what she’s doing on the weekend etc.
    I am going to follow up and say how did it go etc when I see her next to show that I am interested and was listening.
    fukin a man

    it's friday. it will prob be a bit forced now, but what you should have done when asking what she's doing on the weekend is suggest the two of you go out for drinks/coffee/dinner if she's free. certainly not too late.

    asking her after the fact guarantees you won't hang out because i'm sure by then it will be sunday and the weekend will be virtually over. just fukkin make your move
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    Look buddy, you keep coming on here to ask if she likes you. What sign are you waiting for?

    You either ask her out or you just become her friend which is what you’re doing a good job of right now. This seems a little high school “does she like me?” for someone who’s 23.

    Just stop tormenting yourself and ask her out.
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    fukin a man

    it's friday. it will prob be a bit forced now, but what you should have done when asking what she's doing on the weekend is suggest the two of you go out for drinks/coffee/dinner if she's free. certainly not too late.

    asking her after the fact guarantees you won't hang out because i'm sure by then it will be sunday and the weekend will be virtually over. just fukkin make your move
    Yeah his chances of making a move keep decreasing as if she does like him, she keeps throwing out signs and he keeps hesitating. Yeah definitely don't ask her today.

    Next week when you see her just be direct and ask her out.
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    Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91 View Post
    Yeah his chances of making a move keep decreasing as if she does like him, she keeps throwing out signs and he keeps hesitating. Yeah definitely don't ask her today.

    Next week when you see her just be direct and ask her out.
    yup

    i never understand why some guys will be under the impression a girl might like them and think "hey i should simply keep making conversation the rare occasions I do see her, that will surely amount to something"

    no, you need to be proactive and lead because there are few quality women out there who will make the first move or actively chase a dude. females are all about the hints and nuances
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    Originally Posted by Zackad View Post
    yup

    i never understand why some guys will be under the impression a girl might like them and think "hey i should simply keep making conversation the rare occasions I do see her, that will surely amount to something"

    no, you need to be proactive and lead because there are few quality women out there who will make the first move or actively chase a dude. females are all about the hints and nuances
    Yeah man. I've gotten to the point in my game where I can pick up on subtle hints a woman might like me so the more obvious ones are like bright lights flashing from a car headlights flashing in my face. And I still make a move and even if for whatever reason I turn out to be wrong, at least I made a move. Being direct helps neutralize game playing since Timewasters will just have a chat with you for attention but don't really like you and being direct should help you recognize which ones are legit and which ones ain't.

    Of course this dude is not at my level yet and so he needs to make the first move as if he's always seeing her on a semi-weekly basis then eventually she's gonna lose interest (some girls are different though and take longer or quicker to lose interest).
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    Originally Posted by rickyy1996 View Post
    Hi, I am a 23 year old male who has started attending church mostly to find a community that I can belong to. I have had issues with depression and social anxiety in the past so I thought a church will be a great place to put myself out there (which it is!). These are the reasons why I think she likes me.
    1. She always gives hugs.
    I awkwardly broke the hug barrier because I saw her greeting my friend with a hug so I just went a long with it. Every time I see her she gives me a hug now. I was sitting and facing the opposite direction last week and she hugged me from behind.
    2. She makes a point and asks what I do on the weekend etc.
    She starts the conversation and keeps it going by asking follow up questions. She even remembers what I told her a few weeks ago and what my plans are for next year in terms of my working situation etc.
    3. She invited me to her birthday party.
    My group has a whatsapp and she got my number and texted me (not using whatsapp) if I have a Facebook so she can add me to an event.
    4. When I was leaving, she asked me if I was coming to the event in the following week.
    5. I strongly believe that she attends church because she wants to meet guys. She doesn’t have a lot of guy friends judging from her Facebook event. The guys that were invited is the ones in my group.
    6. On the weekend, my group and I were sitting and she sat next to me. I was listening into another conversation on my other side (not contributing anything to this conversation) and could see with the corner of my eye her looking over my way. I believe she wanted me to initiate a conversation with her. In the end she started the conversation.

    And these are the reasons why I think she doesn’t:
    1. I think she hugs a lot of guys though. Not 100% though.
    2. I was texting her last week just about how’s her day etc and she didn’t seem to keep the conversation going.

    What do you think?

    Thanks!
    This stupid overanalyzing everything she does to disceren her interest isn't going to do you any good in the long run, srs.
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    Thanks for all the replies!
    I am going to ask her out!
    What do you think of this?
    For Christmas, I am going to get her a voucher for a local coffee shop, that she makes fun of me for never going to then when she opens it I will say “let’s go and get coffee sometime’

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    Originally Posted by rickyy1996 View Post
    Hi, I am a 23 year old male who has started attending church mostly to find a community that I can belong to. I have had issues with depression and social anxiety in the past so I thought a church will be a great place to put myself out there (which it is!). These are the reasons why I think she likes me.
    1. She always gives hugs.
    I awkwardly broke the hug barrier because I saw her greeting my friend with a hug so I just went a long with it. Every time I see her she gives me a hug now. I was sitting and facing the opposite direction last week and she hugged me from behind.
    2. She makes a point and asks what I do on the weekend etc.
    She starts the conversation and keeps it going by asking follow up questions. She even remembers what I told her a few weeks ago and what my plans are for next year in terms of my working situation etc.
    3. She invited me to her birthday party.
    My group has a whatsapp and she got my number and texted me (not using whatsapp) if I have a Facebook so she can add me to an event.
    4. When I was leaving, she asked me if I was coming to the event in the following week.
    5. I strongly believe that she attends church because she wants to meet guys. She doesn’t have a lot of guy friends judging from her Facebook event. The guys that were invited is the ones in my group.
    6. On the weekend, my group and I were sitting and she sat next to me. I was listening into another conversation on my other side (not contributing anything to this conversation) and could see with the corner of my eye her looking over my way. I believe she wanted me to initiate a conversation with her. In the end she started the conversation.

    And these are the reasons why I think she doesn’t:
    1. I think she hugs a lot of guys though. Not 100% though.
    2. I was texting her last week just about how’s her day etc and she didn’t seem to keep the conversation going.

    What do you think?

    Thanks!
    You need to act on the signals. Women will give them out but the window closes quickly and they move on if they think you're not interested. Hope everything works out for you.
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    Originally Posted by rickyy1996 View Post
    Thanks for all the replies!
    I am going to ask her out!
    What do you think of this?
    For Christmas, I am going to get her a voucher for a local coffee shop, that she makes fun of me for never going to then when she opens it I will say “let’s go and get coffee sometime’

    Thanks
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    Originally Posted by rickyy1996 View Post
    Thanks for all the replies!
    I am going to ask her out!
    What do you think of this?
    For Christmas, I am going to get her a voucher for a local coffee shop, that she makes fun of me for never going to then when she opens it I will say “let’s go and get coffee sometime’

    Thanks
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    No....
    Okay, I understand you might feel like you are replying to a thick wall and I understand what everyone else is saying but here me out. I know I am also overthinking things.
    Getting her a small voucher for this coffee shop kills 2 birds with 1 stone. To be getting her a gift for Christmas she will think that she’s important enough to be getting a gift and a week or 2 after Xmas we can go together and use the voucher.
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    Originally Posted by rickyy1996 View Post
    Okay, I understand you might feel like you are replying to a thick wall and I understand what everyone else is saying but here me out. I know I am also overthinking things.
    Getting her a small voucher for this coffee shop kills 2 birds with 1 stone. To be getting her a gift for Christmas she will think that she’s important enough to be getting a gift and a week or 2 after Xmas we can go together and use the voucher.
    Have you ever been on a date before or had a girlfriend? Are you a virgin? Seriously asking.
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