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    Do I just tell her straight up?

    I went out with this girl for two dates, both went great second date we made out.

    We made plans to meet up for a third but she was busy on the coming week, then we made plans again and she bailed due to a paper she was writing but I figured at this point it was over and she was trying to just let me down easy. Except she keeps on initiating texts after I go dark for a few days.

    The last time I saw her was the second date which was two weeks ago.



    Since then it’s been sporadic texting. I even thought she was done and I was just settling into letting her go and then she texts again.


    Do I just call her out and say “hey as much as I LOVE texting, if we aren’t going to meet up anytime soon is there even a point”

    Unless you guys have advice I what I should say otherwise
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    Just cut to the chase and ask her out again.

    “hey as much as I LOVE texting, if we aren’t going to meet up anytime soon is there even a point” seems a bit passive aggressive / feminine. Shows your annoyance, but why would you want to convey that emotion to her? Keep it light but quick
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    Originally Posted by CrimsonSteel View Post
    Just cut to the chase and ask her out again.

    “hey as much as I LOVE texting, if we aren’t going to meet up anytime soon is there even a point” seems a bit passive aggressive / feminine. Shows your annoyance, but why would you want to convey that emotion to her? Keep it light but quick
    Agree. Ask her out and plan a day. If you get push back or she’s just not available move on.

    100% other guys are entertaining her time.
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    Originally Posted by CrimsonSteel View Post
    Just cut to the chase and ask her out again.

    “hey as much as I LOVE texting, if we aren’t going to meet up anytime soon is there even a point” seems a bit passive aggressive / feminine. Shows your annoyance, but why would you want to convey that emotion to her? Keep it light but quick
    Yeah I figured. Just gonna be like “hey, let’s grab drinks Friday night” and see if she goes for it..
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    Originally Posted by Dirtymanjames View Post
    Yeah I figured. Just gonna be like “hey, let’s grab drinks Friday night” and see if she goes for it..
    Why? Invite her for dinner and drink at your place. Ask her to pick a wine and you’ll cook.

    This has stalled. Time to move fast forward.
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    Why? Invite her for dinner and drink at your place. Ask her to pick a wine and you’ll cook.

    This has stalled. Time to move fast forward.
    Will do and I’ll report back
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    You haven’t seen her for two weeks, and you’re still texting? What a waste of time
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    Originally Posted by Dirtymanjames View Post
    Yeah I figured. Just gonna be like “hey, let’s grab drinks Friday night” and see if she goes for it..
    There ya go
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    Originally Posted by drvillain View Post
    You haven’t seen her for two weeks, and you’re still texting? What a waste of time
    Yup
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    Why? Invite her for dinner and drink at your place. Ask her to pick a wine and you’ll cook.

    This has stalled. Time to move fast forward.
    Do this
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    Originally Posted by Coolman468 View Post
    Do this
    Asked her out, she said yes... but she did flake last week. Plan is too go see some Christmas stuff by her place and then head to hers for a movie.

    If she flakes again this time, I’m going NC
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    Originally Posted by Dirtymanjames View Post
    Asked her out, she said yes... but she did flake last week. Plan is too go see some Christmas stuff by her place and then head to hers for a movie.

    If she flakes again this time, I’m going NC
    That’s fair. But if she flakes you STAY on NC
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    Originally Posted by Dirtymanjames View Post
    Asked her out, she said yes... but she did flake last week. Plan is too go see some Christmas stuff by her place and then head to hers for a movie.

    If she flakes again this time, I’m going NC
    I can accept this.
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    She flaked already 😂.

    Said she already had plans for a concert she forgot about.


    Time to go NC, got other dates lined up this weekend anyway.
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    Originally Posted by Dirtymanjames View Post
    She flaked already 😂.

    Said she already had plans for a concert she forgot about.


    Time to go NC, got other dates lined up this weekend anyway.
    It is what it is.
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    Originally Posted by Coolman468 View Post
    It is what it is.
    It’s funny because I had a funny feeling after date 2 when she flaked for date 3 it was done, but since date 2 went sooo well. I legitimately thought she was busy and just couldn’t make it.

    Guess I’ll trust my gut from now on
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    Yeah she has low interest. Probably from an app.
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    Originally Posted by liftforchrist5 View Post
    Yeah she has low interest. Probably from an app.
    Yup lmao. I learned my lesson.
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    call her out but not with that phaggy line

    tell her "I don't have time for bs do you want to meet or not"
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