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    Should I break up with my gf?

    Got back with an ex girlfriend 2 months ago after being broken up with NC for 6 months (we were previously together for 7 months). She contacted me saying she made a mistake leaving me and she knows i'm a good person and wants to be with me again because she knew she made a mistake. She broke up with me before because she wasn't ready for a relationship, she had a kid and didn't want me involved in their lives as she cares very much for the child and wouldn't want to do anything wrong by them (She's a good and very protective mom).

    So we get back together 2 months ago after she tells me things are different now, she doesn't want to make another mistake she believes i'm the right person for her and her family and everything else. Since then we have made big steps by meeting her family, seeing her kid etc. However she's slowly seeming as if she's losing interest again, she doesn't really text as much as she was for the first few weeks of us getting back together, she'll leave the message on read for 4-5 hours at a time sometimes whilst using WhatsApp in the mean time so I can see her last active status she says "sorry I took so long to reply i'm busy" which I know is a lie she just doesn't want to speak. When we do text she also seems quiet.

    We see each other in the week twice for a couple of hours as I will go and take her and her kid out for a bit then I go home as she doesn't want me staying over hers, this leaves her only staying over my place once every 2 weeks for a few nights so she can get a sitter for her child so we only get physical once every two weeks. After a small argument a week ago she told me she only wants to come over for the night once every 2 weeks. That means we are only getting "close" once every 2 weeks for one night, I have a problem with that and my thoughts on this are "she can't be interested if she only wants to be physical for one night once every 2 weeks"

    Overall she doesn't appear interested in wanting something apart from a companion, at first she was saying she missed me, now she just seems tired of me, I feel like i've become a game to her, she fought her way to get herself back into my life, I let her back in then she sits back and acts like she's not interested anymore? Saying she doesn't want to be around me as much is clearly an issue too, how would I go about breaking up with her or should I just persist with her for the time being?
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    Step 1. Step back from the texting, only text her briefly and coldly
    Step 2. Focus on work & your hobbies

    See if anything changes for a week or two. If everything is still the same - dump
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    She got screwed over by a guy and ran to you, ol' faithful, to make her feel better.

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    Wtf is with all these beta males posting about some chick breaking up with them lately? A lot of dudes with that scarcity mentality.....where's all the interesting threads?

    I swear half of these threads are created by the same dude.
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    She left you for a guy she was more sexually attracted to. He dumped her. She now thinks you will be the best backup provider for her and her kid but she has zero sexual interest in you and will just use you as a backup provider. Expect to be monkey branched and dumped as soon as she can find anyone who makes more money or is more attractive to her.
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    Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91 View Post
    Wtf is with all these beta males posting about some chick breaking up with them lately? A lot of dudes with that scarcity mentality.....where's all the interesting threads?

    I swear half of these threads are created by the same dude.
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    Definitely left you first time for a new man. He probably pumped and dumped her so she came crawling back to you. Sounds like she's found another new man would be my guess
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    Originally Posted by BlackScorpio91 View Post
    Wtf is with all these beta males posting about some chick breaking up with them lately? A lot of dudes with that scarcity mentality.....where's all the interesting threads?

    I swear half of these threads are created by the same dude.
    I understand what you're trying to say but this isn't about being broken up with, this is me saying "should I break up with her or am I taking things out of context and going too far?"
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    She strings you on so much, because she's weighing her options, implying you're not the only one, most-likely not the only guy she's fuking/seeing at the moment, and you're clearly not her best option. Dude, it's not going to work, stop trying to make it work, just NC her, move on. Don't even reply to her anymore, just move on, full NC.
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    Stop reading so much into texting.

    If she has her kid the whole time her reasoning for rarely staying over is legit.

    Either way it seems like your needs aren't being met so move on.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    Stop reading so much into texting.

    If she has her kid the whole time her reasoning for rarely staying over is legit.

    Either way it seems like your needs aren't being met so move on.
    Her reason for not seeing me is legit but now her saying she doesn't want to see me as much seems as if she doesn't want to put in that much effort/commitment. She seems to want me but doesn't seem as if she has the time or effort for me, if that's the case should I persevere or am I correct in thinking it's a dealbreaker?
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    Maybe stop with the chasing? It seems she is not respecting you.
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    Originally Posted by Carljung View Post
    Maybe stop with the chasing? It seems she is not respecting you.
    I don't think she does so that's part of my reasoning of should I just break up with her, i'm not going to be treated like a priority as i'm doing with her if she doesn't respect me and she's always going to be this way unless there's a way to make women respect you lol
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    Got back with an ex girlfriend 2 months ago after being broken up with NC for 6 months

    Never do that. You can start banging again, but you gotta remind them it's only fun. "It didn't work out when we got serious, let's just keep it light and have fun." If you're not willing to drop her with no hesitation, you should still be on NC.
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    Have you mentioned the fact that shes been talking to other people and leaving your messages for hours to her? ALWAYS speak to someone and see what they say before u just break up with them.
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    Originally Posted by CrimsonSteel View Post
    Got back with an ex girlfriend 2 months ago after being broken up with NC for 6 months

    Never do that. You can start banging again, but you gotta remind them it's only fun. "It didn't work out when we got serious, let's just keep it light and have fun." If you're not willing to drop her with no hesitation, you should still be on NC.
    I'm not one for believing getting back with an ex NEVER works. Surely there's some people out there that have had it work for them? Anyway I broke it off with her, feels are developing and I felt she doesn't really respect me the same way I respect her. Onto the next.
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    Originally Posted by ChrissJ View Post
    Have you mentioned the fact that shes been talking to other people and leaving your messages for hours to her? ALWAYS speak to someone and see what they say before u just break up with them.
    Already spoke to her about it but she just says she's busy or just doesn't want to speak, she's happy to post inspirational quotes on facebook all day and tag her friends in dumb chit but if i'm asking what plans we have for later on in the night or something she's "too busy to respond".
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    Originally Posted by WizA92 View Post
    Already spoke to her about it but she just says she's busy or just doesn't want to speak, she's happy to post inspirational quotes on facebook all day and tag her friends in dumb chit but if i'm asking what plans we have for later on in the night or something she's "too busy to respond".
    I love when a Chick posts a post gym selfie along with some inspirational quote. This photo usually has her arm position to the side of her face showing her completely meaningless forearm tattoo.

    I do love those girls though lol
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    Originally Posted by WizA92 View Post
    Already spoke to her about it but she just says she's busy or just doesn't want to speak, she's happy to post inspirational quotes on facebook all day and tag her friends in dumb chit but if i'm asking what plans we have for later on in the night or something she's "too busy to respond".
    Texts regarding plans (especially for that day) should be answered in a timely fashion. I'd say yes it's disrespectful if she is posting on social media all day long and not answering those.
    Small-talk texts are another story.

    Seems like she has all the control and she knows it.

    Maybe there are ways to gain some of it back but sounds like this ain't gonna last regardless.
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    I love when a Chick posts a post gym selfie along with some inspirational quote. This photo usually has her arm position to the side of her face showing her completely meaningless forearm tattoo.

    I do love those girls though lol
    This one didn’t post gym selfies, just dumb quotes and shared dumb videos lol. The main issue with it is I turn out to be the bad guy saying “you’re always ignoring my texts” but if I’m taking a little while to reply she’ll text me again getting amped up asking why I haven’t text back but when she doesn’t bother responding it’s like I’m supposed to accept that and it’s fine but if I do it then it’s wrong. Bullchit.

    Hopefully this time she’ll remain an ex. Glad I didn’t fall too deep again.
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    Originally Posted by johnnydeep1 View Post
    In the 8th grade I had a blonde girlfriend who obsessed over me. I broke up with her because I had other options, and she would still call me her "boyfriend." I just ignored her.
    So you’re saying I should ignore her even though we’ve now split up and I’m doing that already?
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    Originally Posted by WizA92 View Post
    So you’re saying I should ignore her even though we’ve now split up and I’m doing that already?
    Yes, do it.
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    So nothing changed since my original post and she still acted the same. She stayed over on the weekend, only banged twice after not seeing her for 2 weeks (would've thought she would be all over me considering she hasn't been laid in 2 weeks). Wanted me as far away as possible when we were in bed. She's just not as affectionate anymore. Yesterday I give her the cold shoulder after dropping her off home then she texts me a few times in a row today asking why i'm not speaking to her (but when she doesn't respond to my texts and I say something then i'm the crazy one). I broke it off, she lost her ****, I have now been blocked and understand the meaning of hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. She has made me feel like i'm wrong though, i'm pretty sure if I behaved the way she does with me and her needs were not getting met she would end it too, right?
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