Forum: Relationships and Relationship Help

I was just curious if anyone had any good stories of how getting in shape affected their dating lives!

My female co-worker invited me to join a cycling class. I’ve always been into outdoor biking so I decided to give it a try. It’s such a great workout first and foremost and the instructor is very motivating. But Jesus Christ, the women to men ratio is like 20:1. I’ve done small talk with girls...

So I have been working on myself. I built a big house, I have my own IT consulting company. I make good money. And it will be even better. In free time I study and finish certifications. I go to gym regularly. But I am still kisless virgin. And women are very standofish when I try to talk...

- Asked this girl out from my home town. She said yes. - We hung out on the first date, made out when I dropped her home. - Came to my place on the second date for drinks (covid so can't go out to a bar) - She asked if it was cool to spend the night at mine because she was having a great time. I...

For those with gym approach experience, what's worked for you in the past that you would recommend doing for the following: 1) A Miscer had a post that estimated the success rate of approaching at gyms was 20:1. Was this your experience? or higher or lower? 2) What's a realistic target to set...

Hello BB forum/Dear diary, I am not really looking for a relationship, I just want to date around, gain experience and learn more about what I really like in a woman. But it all is a bit complicated for me. When I really fall in love or something then a relationship would eventually be possible....

Misc. been seeing a new girl for 2 months now. Checks all the boxes for a wife. However sex is meh. I normally finish with bjs, but sometimes when in her i go soft. I have been used to trash girls the last 7 years. Ones that I’d gladly bang but wouldn’t take around my friends.. we all know...

Tldr at bottom. I've been single most of my life. Had a couple GFs in HS but nothing serious. Probably my fault. Afterwards, it's been the same. I suck at reading them so nothing happens. Now, it's been 3-5 years since I've had one. I had given up and decided I'm okay as FA. However,...

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Just broke up with a girl who had a 30 notch count. She dropped me like a hot potato. Said she no longer had feelings for me after the past few years "wanting marriage and kids" "I love you" "you're my soul mate"

So I met this girl on tinder like 8 months ago. We exchanged numbers and have talked on and off without linking up (she lives hours away) for those 8 months. We never discussed anything sexual and mainly exchanged pleasantries like have a great week, talked about music here and there. Finally,...

no matter how good looking or fun a date is she will always have 5 other dudes shes more interested in lol this is a joke..im tired of hookups but you have better chances being a fukboi its not like before where a woman would accept your flaws and best features...they see one flaw and jump to...

If you have depression or anxiety, how do you overcome it on a daily basis? What has been affected since? Are your relationships still good?

Hey R&H brahs, I’m making this thread because I’ve been feeling nothing but resentment towards my GF due to her constant excuses whenever I bring sex up. We’ve been dating for almost 8 months now and we’ve done it 4 times. (I was her first so I was willing to wait). This feeling of resentment...

Fuk am I the only one here? I gave up on dating apps and tried it again today and matched with a few. So I decided to message one since her photo was at some hiking trail and I love hiking. Got one word answers so I figured she wasn’t even interested so didn’t bother to keep going. Me:...

Just had a first date with a 30 year old post glow, post wall thicc b•tch who probably thought she was out of my league. Very sexy, but not marriage material - ask me anything.

I mean I’m pretty oblivious when it comes to “signs” and whatever. Last Sunday night, she was touching my hand almost every time I spoke or made a joke. At one point she even sat on my lap and then brushed something off my knee (crumbs maybe?) But last night she didn’t talk to me much. She...